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writes: Hey ok this may not sound big at all. I've bin with this guy for 9 months and things were going great...obviously they've kinda settled down now but n e way. Hes bin acting really weird with me. Before you think anything....im not clingy...dont call him 24/7 or anything lyk that. I havn't seen him in a fortnight and over the last week hes gone so cold with me. For example a few weeks ago he mentioned that if i saw any weight lifting gloves to let him know. So whilst shoppin the other day i gave him a quik call to tell him id seen sum...he didn't answer. So i thought ah fair enuf. So in the evening he called me and rudely said 'i have a missed call of you?!' as if it was something so deluded! So i casually said ah ye saw sum gloves etc and he didnt thank me or even asked how i was... he just said 'erm right ok...bye then'.So the other day when i called him to meet up...once again he didn't pick up. So me being the optimist i thought...ah he's busy. So later on that day he rang me back and started the convo with the same words 'I have a missed call of you?!??!'... so i just said 'hi ye i just fancied a chat'. And he was just really quiet so i said to him to try nd make convo 'have you got a busy weekend ahead?' (in order to see if he had tym to see me)...he cottoned on to this and just said 'very very busy'...so naturally i asked 'oh doing what'.. he just started mummbling the he said 'my sisters coming over'...now he doesnt even have a sister.... what the hell is going on?? Reply to this Question
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reader, kellyO  +, writes (30 December 2005):
 Hi dearie, i agree with the other here.i wouldnt call him again if i were u. i would wait for him to initiate the next move and make him work hard to get close again cos he is acting really uninterested.My own advise now is not to dwell on him much. Go out and enjoy yourself there are alot of great guys out there to meet.All the best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2005): Go with your gut feeling. Either he is not interested anymore or has a girl on the side if he cared about you in anyway he wouldn't seem so cold when you call him He sounds like a jerk. I would not call him anymore and if he calls you be quick with me say you have to go blow dry your hair you can't talk Ha Ha!!! I'm not saying play games but try to see were he's at if there is someone else let him go move on you sound like a girl guys would die for ( meaning not clingy or jealous which is key to alot of relationships) he should be lucky your not up his butt like some girls!!! Best of luck
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