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female
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anonymous
writes:Hi, just thought i would share this little problem i have.Basically I have known this boy since i was 11, met in secondary school and became really close. People used to say it was obvious we liked each other and we were cute together.we would hug and mess around every day and talk on the phone alot. However, when we were like 15 his friend asked me out for him, but i didnt get to answer as my friend said no for me. i didnt stop her as i was not confident that it was for real and didnt want to look like a fool. We were on the phone one time and he asked if i liked him, i immediately denied it. In reality i was scared of getting hurt and didnt want to say i liked him for me to reject as ive seen a lot of friends get hurt. We began to get distant and he got a g/f. Even then he would always be nice to me and i trsuted him. One day at a party we ended up kissing, i knew he had a g/f but i was like what the hell who cares. I love him still but i guess its turned into the 'I no that nothing will ever happen between us but i still care for him and everything, and he is sometimes on my mind' It took me a long time to get over not talking to him and i now have a 4mnth boyfriend but for the last 2 years since school ended he appears in and out of my life every 6 mnths and i dont get why.Its like everytime i stop thinking about him and missing him he turns up as if to say im still here and then disappears for another 6mnths and it bugs the hell out of me. I love talkin to him and everything but i know those old feelings will keep resurfacing.When i ask him about his girl it seems like he doesnt want to talk about it and gives me vague answers like. Do you love her? his reply 'Y?' and he addresses me as his friend. He doesnt keep in touch with other girl mates of his that i know that went to the same school.Can anyone enlighten me on what this boy might be thinking? When i do talk to him after he resurfaces he will be all nice then the next day he will seem distant then disappear again but thats what i dnt get, hes the one that asks me to call him and hes the one that tries to get in touch with me. I would appreciate any help. Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2008): what do you want from this guy?
Then act like that and it will happen. It sounds like he is unsure about you because you giving mixed signals.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (28 January 2008):
 He is probing you to find out if you still have the same feelings for him or not.When he found none, he disappeared again.
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