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writes:What makes a man fall in love with a woman that he is seeing? Is it when he feels like a lucky man? What are the things that made you fall in love, or that you felt were important in determining that this woman was one that was special enough for you to love her? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2007): Well I have had two guys fall inlove with me. One was 24 when we first started dating and the other was 35. Two completely different guys from completely different backgrounds. According to them both (interestingly they have both said the same thing about me which is kind of spooky) but they both said that I was 'different' from any girl they dated and that I was their dream girl.
Let me give you some background. They both fell madly inlove with me. They both wanted to marry me within a month of meeting (men are funny creatures). They both knew instantly that I was 'the one.' So yeah they were both very inlove and I had SO much fun with both of them.
So let me give you some background about myself and maybe it'll shed some light. I'm very educated. But I am the most open minded unjudgemental "snob" you'll ever meet. But the point is that I know who I am and I am comfortable in my own skin but I don't judge others. I'm hopelessly romantic. I am very straightforward. I KNOW what I want. So in other words, I NEVER ask "what makes a man fall inlove?" But instead I KNOW what makes ME fall inlove and I know that's all that matters. I laugh ALOT. If our car breaks down I laugh. I am not afraid to let them know how I feel even if I am angry with him. But I am not petty either. I treat the guys I love like GOLD. I'm nurturing, affectionate, encouraging, and believe in them with all my heart. And at the same time I am adventurous and exciting and fun and full of laughter and happy and we just had such a great time together EVERY SINGLE DAY. That's all there is to it.
Just be a ray of sunshine in their life and in your own life. And take good care of yourself. Stay in shape and be healthy. That's important too.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (19 December 2007):
 I guess there would be as many answers to this question as there are men. Even I could give you different answers, depending on what woman I talked about. And then, when you're 40, you don't fall in love for the same reasons you did when you were 17. And there are people you could love at 17 but you just couldn't love at 30. I know this for a fact :-). So, I'm afraid I couldn't answer this question as it is.
However, I think you have a reason to want to know this. Is there a lucky man around, and you want to check whether the reasons he gave for falling in love are "generally accepted"?
Can you share a bit more?
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