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writes:i met a man at work a few mths ago we were flirting 4 a while and he told me he was separted after a 15 yr relationship, we started texting and had a few dates he told me that he was really happy and never felt so relaxed with anyone else then his wife decided she wants him bk so he backed off from me sayin he doesn no wat 2 do but he is still flirting with me but still not bk with her wat can i do?
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reader, sara12345 +, writes (19 December 2007):
sara12345 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for the msgs it gave me a few things 2 think bout thanks away xxxxxx
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reader, sara12345 +, writes (19 December 2007):
sara12345 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni have decided 2 give him till after xmas 2 sort himself out if not i will move on
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reader, Richard_EMids +, writes (19 December 2007):
 Hi Sara. Well he has probably got a lot of things to get sorted out, papers, property, and especially including his feelings. His wife also is trying to work things out. He probably played the jealousy card to her by letting her know (accidentally!!) that he was starting to see someone else. By backing off from you he was giving a sign to his wife that it is not all over yet, but it could be if she doesn't see things his way. He obviously doesn't want to go past a point of no return for his wife. This can go on for quite some time before they finally decide to divorce or make a new start.
What can you do? You just have to decide if this is what you want. Hope I've made your choice more clear for you.
Good luck
Richard
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2007): make this man a decision on who he really have true feelings for. Because this man may be giving you the run around and playing with your emotions, feelings, and heart all in one.
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