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*helsieSue
writes:okay, i know i'm young, yeahyeah. blahblah 'dont have sex,' blah! thats not what i want to hear, what i want to know is little things that you love that a girl does. and i dont just mean during sex, but other times too, like to be romantic or 'sexually arousing' you know, nice gestures. or anything attractive. get it? gooood:) now help me;) Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2010): im a girl and one of my favourite things is to be kissed on the neck and just be hugged better than all the heavy stuff
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2010): Im a girl, but I know what we girls can do to make our men feel great and loved. Hold his hand. Make sure he knows how great of a time you have when you're with him. Don't be negative to his ideas and suggestions but enjoy the things he want to experience with you (as in if he asks you to go see that movie you didnt really plan on seeing, or do a camping trip you never thought you'd enjoy, but you still loved it). Falling asleep in his arms is something many guys like, makes them feel trusted, and lets them know you are completely relaxed and comfortable with them. However, that depends on the guy in question and your relationship with him. Guys like to get complimented too! Just don't tell him he's cute all the time, but more like "nice jacket" or "that hairstyle looks great on you" things like that. Random cuddles are great. Showing him new things, letting him see and experience things he wouldn't normally do (just like you have to be positive to his ides, he will love it when you bring new things into his life).
There are many many many things guys love. It depends to some degree on the man in question, but guys don't only think about sex. Sure they do think about it, but sex alone will not make a man feel loved and wanted. He needs attention just like we women do, and being shown a softer level of care as well. Like making him food. A good way into a mans heart is though his belly!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2010): One of things any girl/boy should not be is so defensive. Its very annoying and putting off! You are not even asking about sex! Yet, you assume people will want to lecture you! Get over yourself.
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reader, Illithid +, writes (2 February 2010):
 I love to be, as previous girlfriends have called me, a "teddy bear". I love being that trusted, safe, loved man. When a girl rests her head on my chest while were sitting on the couch watching a movie, maybe even falls asleep like that, I feel that's more intimate and tender than sex. But anything like that, small gentle touches that just show closeness and trust that aren't even remotely sexual but are loving. I live for those moments, and THEY are what make me feel loved.
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (2 February 2010):
 I know this special girl who comes in and out of my life, but I don't know when she'll come back or if ill ever see her again untill the next time. I like that sence of unexpected surprise from her. She's the most beautiful woman I've ever seen.
When we briefly see each other its very short, a few hours, but very special.
Thats a romatic one.
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