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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: I love my fiance but am still not comfortable around her, especially when we are making love. I feel quite tense and nervous as to whether i am doing it right and what kind of message i am sending her? I can't really enjoy the company of her for the same reason. Please advice.
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (12 October 2007):
After time this will get better. The joy just builds over time.
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reader, xDaniloux +, writes (12 October 2007):
Hi,
The fact that you are engaged to marry this girl says that she is deeply commited to you and loves you a great deal! You need to ask yourself why it is that you feel this way?
Just be yourself around her, she obviously loves the person you are. Just relax when you are intimate with her it will be much more of an enjoyable experience for you both. There is no right and wrong when it comes to making love. Dont be afraid to show your girl how much you love her.
Best of luck
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reader, rcn +, writes (12 October 2007):
I don't know if there is any kind of message. Unless you are discussing it with her, she may just think it's you're style.
My HUGE piece of advice for you is to talk to someone about what is creating this low comfort level before the wedding day.
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