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writes:My boyfriend and I have been dating for the past 6 months. However, we have been good friends through college for the past four and a half years so the relationship might be new but to us it seems like its been forever. We practically live together now and we make big plans for the future like really living together and one day hopefully marriage. Everything about our relationship was perfect until about 3 weeks ago when i simply woke up and just felt like something was missing between us. My sex drive went from 100% to about 35% and I feel like i'm forcing myself to make everything seem ok, but he realizes it and is questioning what is going on and he's scared things are going to end. I do love him so much and want more than anything to have our plans work out. So what is wrong with me? Why do I all of a sudden feel this way for no reason?
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reader, BEEN THERE DONE IT  +, writes (16 June 2007):
 Hi there babes,
Are you going through any stress at the moment? Have you been living together long as you state your practicaully living together now? It could just be the fact that all of sudden things are moving a little too fast for you and it may be freaking you out a little..
You have said you love him babes, he knows something is wrong especially as your sex drive has gone from 100% to about 35% have you tried talking to him about this?
When couples live together the sex does tend in most circumstances to lessen than when you lived apart, it seemed more exciting meeting up having fun together, living together is totally different you get to know each others habits, stress of paying bills etc..creeps in...
Hope you can identify what is making you feel like this babes, don't feel bad you still say you love him and want your plans to work so its not ll bad you need to take your time and I am sure you will work out why your feeling low...
Good luck hun,
Love Donna
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reader, deejuliet +, writes (16 June 2007):
 There may be a medical issue, but more likely there was some sort of mental catalyst for these feelings. Perhaps it was something small that at the moment bothered you but not enough to really focus on. Then overnight as it percolated it became much more intence and resulted in your feeling of unhappiness. Perhaps it was even in your dreams. I think you really need to sit down and think about what was the catalyst for these feelings. They didnt just come for no reason whatsoever.
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