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writes:I've liked a guy for 26 months. In the 9th grade I had quite a few classes with him. We frequently made small verbal contact: he would ask for a pen, I would say hi, etc. He gradually became more receptive, I caught him staring at me and HE said hi to ME. In the 10th grade he was a bit cold. I asked him if he disliked me and he was then slot nicer. He would start small conversations and was friendly when I greeted him. I caught his glances on numerous occasions. Towards the end of the year I backed off significantly. At the beginning of 11th grade I caught his eye a tiny bit. I said hi to him at a dance and he smiled and waved. He stole glances at me on a formal occasion when I wore a dress. He was friendly when I asked him questions regarding school. He said hi to me when I was at my locker. When a friend asked him if he liked me he declined to answer the question. When I recently confronted him at a dance, he was very friendly but denied even knowind I like him. He said bye to me on his own before he left. But now at school he just ignores me and talks to more popular girls...
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reader, justme..x  +, writes (19 April 2009):
 Hey :)Hmm, that sounds like a kind of confusing and awkward situation. Hopefully this will help and it will work out soon! xxOk, this guy is probably as confused as you are!! The level of conversation you have had with him has changed a lot; he probably doesn't know what you think of him anymore, especially as you backed off at the end of year 10 after all your previous "hi"s etc. I do think he likes you back because of the way his effort improved: like, HE started to greet YOU, and the way he glanced at you when you were in your dress. You need to tell him how you feel as soon as you can. He probably thought your feelings were gone, and therefore decided to get over you by talking to other girls instead.At the dance, what do you mean "denied even knowing you like him". Does that mean you already told him?? If so, and he denied knowing rather than just saying no then he probably wanted to think about it. Now he is probably trying and failing to get over you! lol.Either way, you have spent 26 MONTHS LIKING ONE GUY. I think it's time you did something about it!! Why not? The worst that will happen is that he'll be flattered and it might be a little awkward for a while. I think you should ask before it's too late and he moves on. When you asked him if he disliked you and he was a lot nicer to you shows that he really didn't want to give that impression, he actually wanted to give the opposite one!So, good luck! Let me know how it goes :) xxxxxx
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