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I don't know if I love him, but I cant get over him.

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Question - (19 April 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 19 April 2009)
A female Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Me and my ex broke up about 3 months ago, because my family moved to QLD.

After we broke up, my ex slept with a few girls, and messed with my head, and treated me horribly.

A few weeks ago, I moved back to Adelaide, And I hate to admit it after everything he has done to me, but I moved back for him.

I have now found out he doesn't want me back, But he came over the other night, and kissed me. And that led to us having sex.

I dont know if I love him, but I cant get over him.

Did I make a bad mistake?

How can I get him back?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2009):

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Ohh sorry.

I should have made it clear that I initiated the sex, not him.

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A female reader, tea.petal United States +, writes (19 April 2009):

tea.petal agony auntAs a girl who has wasted time on conceited pricks and has been involved in several abusive relationships, I sincerely advise you to move on. He clearly only wants you for sex. Moving on will hurt for a while, but you will soon find someone who actually respects you and is capable of returning your feelings.

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A female reader, charmillion United Kingdom +, writes (19 April 2009):

listen, people make mistakes especially when they like someone. but you cant let him treat you like a "jump off" only when he wants you he goes and sleeps with you and leaves, you deserve better than that, a guy that openly says he does not want you dnt follow him any further because its gonna make u feel worse when he leaves and feel used.

i dnt think your in love i think its just tough letting go of someone u cared about, and i def dnt think he loves you if he's not making steps to be with you like u are for him. i think u should leave him alone find someone that will be the one to come after you and care about you as much as u do for them.

love yourself before you love a man.

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