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writes: Me and my ex broke up about 3 months ago, because my family moved to QLD.After we broke up, my ex slept with a few girls, and messed with my head, and treated me horribly.A few weeks ago, I moved back to Adelaide, And I hate to admit it after everything he has done to me, but I moved back for him.I have now found out he doesn't want me back, But he came over the other night, and kissed me. And that led to us having sex.I dont know if I love him, but I cant get over him.Did I make a bad mistake?How can I get him back?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOhh sorry.
I should have made it clear that I initiated the sex, not him.
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reader, tea.petal +, writes (19 April 2009):
As a girl who has wasted time on conceited pricks and has been involved in several abusive relationships, I sincerely advise you to move on. He clearly only wants you for sex. Moving on will hurt for a while, but you will soon find someone who actually respects you and is capable of returning your feelings.
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reader, charmillion +, writes (19 April 2009):
listen, people make mistakes especially when they like someone. but you cant let him treat you like a "jump off" only when he wants you he goes and sleeps with you and leaves, you deserve better than that, a guy that openly says he does not want you dnt follow him any further because its gonna make u feel worse when he leaves and feel used. i dnt think your in love i think its just tough letting go of someone u cared about, and i def dnt think he loves you if he's not making steps to be with you like u are for him. i think u should leave him alone find someone that will be the one to come after you and care about you as much as u do for them. love yourself before you love a man.
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