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36-40,
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writes:I wanted to know if its disrespectful when you just met a guy gave him your number then 3 hours later the first call he's calling you asking if i wanna go sauna with him and his male friends??? i said no i aint gonna go sauna with you and your friends, later in the night he called me again wants me to go 2 his house to watch a movie he saying i have 2 come 2nite. so i said i cant just go to your place and this time i just met you few hours ago. then he said well if you don't come then i wont have time for you. i just met this guy what is he on?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2010): He's delusional and thinks he already knows what you want and that is what he wants and he wants it right now.
Guy is a fool. Stay away from the control freak weirdo.
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (18 July 2010):
 Sounds even worse than just wanting to get you in to bed.
Think about it, he wants you in the sauna with his mates, ..then same night gives you an ultimatum to come to his house to watch movies.
What do you think you would be watching and how many of his mates would still be there?
*Alarm Bells are ringing in my mind anyway!*
Not saying anything sinister would be the case, but I would not be risking putting myself in a situation with a bunch of unknown guys I just met - and certainly not when one seems so desperate to get me there and is being so disrespectful in the type of invites being offered.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (18 July 2010):
If there was ever a guy who is just desperate to get you into bed, this is the guy. All he's after is getting you into bed, and that's it. There's no romance here at all. Nothing. You can find a better guy.
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