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What is this co-worker up to? Telling me I'm the first to know he's getting a divorce?

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Question - (5 October 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 6 October 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Dear Cupid,

To summarize briefly... I just started my new job and one of my co workers was beginning to ask me to dinner and spend time with him only on my second day. I felt really weird because I found out he had a wife and I just ignored him. Well yesterday he had his head down on the desk and I asked if he was alright and all he could say was.... Its been a rough couple weeks. After that I said ok Im not going to pry. Then I was in the break room and he came in later and said... Ok do you really want to know? You'd be the first person I tell here anyway... And that's when he said... I'm getting a divorce. My question is... What is this guy up to?

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (6 October 2011):

Tisha-1 agony auntIs this you? http://www.dearcupid.org/question/an-employee-is-sending-me-texts-asking-me.html

You are his supervisor? Okay, do not ask any more personal questions about him. No comments, just hello, and only work relevant details.

Did you ever go to HR about him?

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (6 October 2011):

Tisha-1 agony auntHe's up to no good. Avoid avoid avoid.

He's asking you out on your second day and now has a dramatic announcement for you?

Huge red flags waving brightly around this guy.

AVOID!!!!

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