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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi, my man used to cum in me, using condoms, all the time. For the past 2 months this has not been happening - hes been blaming this on his night work, hes tired, if we argue this is the problem, its the dog etc. I have tried my best, but only managed to get him to do this himself over me. Im 34 and have never had a man do this to me. He maintains an erections but tries so hard to cum, it always end in failure. I think I'm the problem - hes says he fancies me like mad, but says he can masturbate on his own (about me!) but cannot get there with me. Am I being taken for a ride? Im 34, hes 53. PS I have even brought him bondage gear as he mentioned it recently but thats not helping. Eveything was fine until 2 months ago - do you think he has just gone off me but too scared to tell me?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (23 October 2009):
No, you are not the problem at all, and you mustn't think that because it will make this problem worse for him. He's stressed, which can have a terrible effect on a man. So rather than focusing on him coming, focus on getting close and helping each other relax. The more he tries to force it, the more it won't happen.
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