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writes:Hi, i'm female, 20yrs old and I'm in love with my best friend. but I'm just a little confused about the signals he's sending me.I've known him since we were 6 years old, then over a year ago I told him how I felt in an email.. (yes I'm a coward..), but when I sent it I wrote a HEAP of other stuff, I doubt it got lost in the chaos because it was seperate, but it made it easier for him to reply without even touching on the subject of my confession...Anyway, I'd come to the conclusion that he did not feel the same way, and I have been working on quelching my feelings ever since then... However, he slept over a week ago and he was being very friendly, talking about the possiblility of us having sex (jokingly), and he started randomly cuddling me twice while we were lounging around (hes not a very cuddly person, we never hug normally). He also pointed out my messy bed hair the following morning.. telling me i looked cute. He also continually mentions how much he wants to find 'the right girl' (admittedly that is standard practice for us talking)Stuff like this has been happening for a few months now, what is he up to?now, i know exacly what this sounds like. and I know all the hopeless romantics are going to say "omg! you two should totally date and we'll, like.. come to the wedding!". Thing is i just cant believe this is the case... wouldnt he be more open, seeing as how he knows I like him?I would also like to make it known that he is mostly attracted to tiny asian girls, and I am caucasian, with slightly freckled skin and on the wrong side of chubby.Should i just wait and see where this goes? Is there some way I can breach this topic without making things awkward between us? Or is this standard practise with guys and I should just give up and return to the slow path of 'gettig over' him?Thanks heaps for your responses!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2009): Hiyaa.must be very confuzing for you.what i'd do is jst carry on how its going [its going to be hard] nd jst see what happens, OR take him out to dinner and ask him straight nd tell him how you are feeling, lyk confuzed nd u dont no wt he's trying to tell u. u shud get sum answers out of him best u can, but not so much that u drift apart. not great answers but giv them a try :)glad to help [if it does]
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