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writes:hey all,this may sound like a bit of a random question but im trying to figure what it is about me that guys find so hard to trust. im 21, fairly short 5.1, im slender, ressonably attractive ( or so im told) and am really kind hearted and easy going. i have my boundries when im in a relationship, you know a lil bit of flirting at the bar but any more then that and its instant back off kind of thing. i really dont have any issues with what he does, as long as i get a text when he gets home if he's gone out like all night with the lads, i dont ask for much but yet every guy thinks im going to cheat on them.... ive never cheated in my life, well a guy kissed me once when i was 15 and i had a boyfriend, but i pushed him away and told him to get lost ( for want of a more unorthadox word lol) but thats nit really cheating is it? i didnt want it or even hint for it. im just so cinfused, i could understand if i was out every night in a tight top, heels and a skirt the size of a belt but im not. i go out in jeans, t-shirts and converse shoes lol i could really use some help here.... what do you think it is? please help me here. thanks in advance for any advice given
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionm gus quite laid back, but he does get paranoid.... ive asked and he just says " i dont know, i just dont want to lose you" ive made it clear that im with him and there is no one else. i dont think i do anthing whilst im with him that would make him think im cheating or would want to, i alwas hold his hand in the street, were forever complimenting each other and chatting and having a laugh. i can think of nothing that im doing.... i dont go out that often and if i do he knows i have a curfew ( still living at mums unfortunatly) so im always in at like 11. thanks for the advice guys, i may well sit him down and ask why he thinks these things and not give in untill he gives me a decent answer.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (14 June 2011):
 Maybe it's the kind of guy you date that is the problem? Jealous types?
I agree that actually asking the Bf why he would even THINK you would cheat is a good idea. It's a perfect way to have a conversation about limitation in a relationship.
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