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30-35,
*neday22
writes:Ok, there is this guy I can't take off my mind! He is not the outgoing type, he's the type that talks when talked to. He seems very friendly n nice. I'm the type who likes to make friends even thought im shy, so i approached him and he kind of gave me a cold look and i was hurt. Im Mexican and he's white, so I thought he was disgusted by me, so I never approached him again ( at that time i didn't have feelings for him, even thought he was handsome) So, time passes by n even though we sat across 4 empty seats from each other, we never spoke. One day I go take my seat and we made eye contact n I thought he wanted to ask me something...but he didn't asked nothing instead he keep looking to my eyes... and i felt trapped, confessed, and scared. It was so strong that I felt like gravity was pulling my chest and I just looked away and kept going my way like nothing. I was shocked at his confidence because there was this one time I passed by in front of him and I felt this shock coming from him (crazy but true). Later on he did this again but this time he approach the table I was working on. We were both alone and I felt trapped and awkward it was almost like he planned it and of course I fall for it the same way I did the first...this time it seemed longer and I ran away. Both of those times he looked into my eyes said the same message "I want you and your mine" and it scared the hell out of me! Of course I was flattered but I'm inexperienced. I'm 22 and relationships never matter to me bc I always looked forward of being someone great n bc of that I was always independent. Event though I have a pretty face Im petite and im a size A (pretty much boobless) but still attract guys n bc of that Im alway on guard. Every time a guy got close to me I push them away or scared them away lol No one has ever looked at me the way he has n in those moments I felt like we where in a whole different world.I don't give effort on approaching him bc who I am (im not ashamed, but I know how society is and it hurts) or ask why he does this bc I'm probably imaging stuff and he has never gave effort on talking to me. What he is doing is hurting me and I feel like an idiot.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (19 June 2012):
 If it is hurting you then you need to talk to him. You don't need to approach him if you feel it will embarrass you, but be friendly smile and say hello to him and see how he responds. You should never be ashamed of yourself and am glad that you are not, but do not let society dictate who you are because every person has there own beliefs.
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