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*yeann
writes:ryeann's profile:Hello,I have been dating my bf for 2 years. He treats me like a queen, but he have a younger girl that lives in another country that he liked and tried to date for 6 years, but didn't work out. She was presented to him on his first visit.He said she was suppose to sleep with him but he couldn't do that.so he allowed her people to believe they were a couple. He visited 2 years before we meet again. We graduated from college together 28 years before. He said he always liked me way before her. Now he has me back in his life he will do every and anything to keep me in his life forever. He sends her money every month. She will not work to support herself. She has no kids. Her last birthday he sent her 300.00 dallors and she went on a shopping spree she was broke in a week. She is treated better by her people because the think she has an american sugardaddy. She can live well on 50 American dallors a month very well. He told her about me and that I am more than a friend to him. We became friend on facebook,but they stop talking on Facebook to each other in public. She has total access to him at all times of the day.He still updates her on his everyday life events and tells me about what he says. I don't like this at all. I told him their is no reason for her to find a boyfriend she already has one U! He said I love you and helping her out. The money is so she don't starve. He has been talking about going back to her country to do business at first he wanted me to go now he doesn't want me to go.I feel they talk everyday he said twice a month.He gave her a job opportunity to make her own money she will not do it.he set her up with phone, put her throw schol to learn all computor programs, new computors, customers all the stuff she need to start. The money was waiting on her in the bank but she did nothing but wait on him to send her free money. When she blows her money she tell him sad stories about bills she needs to pay he sends her money every time. If I say she is not using her money right he defends her.When I seen the inbox messages on fb they talk but not like lovers. He to old her I sent u earrings can I see you in them. I didn't know about that.
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reader, ryeann +, writes (14 July 2012):
ryeann is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank you fancy I needed the push. I will do this right away. You are right.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2012): break up with him now, and tell him the relationship is off until he ends all ties with her.
then it is entirely his choice. If he chooses to keep her around, then he's not willing to be your bf.
so, give him the choice, let him choose. But be prepared to move on if he doesn't make the choice you want.
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