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anonymous
writes:Hi would really appreciate opinions..i met this boy like a week ago and hes text and rang me like everyday since. I saw him out and he didnt speak to me all night other than when i said hi. He rang me that night and said it was because he was scard he woiuld look like a mug. He came to see me last night, we just chilled out for few hours. I looked rough!I didnt have long to get ready ha barely had make-up on and my hair wasnt the greatest. Dya think he was put off??So anyway he kissed me and was like my heart racing. To be fair i found this funny and laughed and said like shut up and laughed it off. He looked at me and was like get out my car in a kind of serious but jokey way?Cut a long story short i got out the car and he was like dya want me to drop u at ya mates, or u can come back to mine if u want.. needless to say i said no.I text him saying good night and he usually would make conversation but he just text back saying ok..that was it.Havnt spoke to him today..Does he like me or want me for something else?? Would he long me off because i wasnt fully made up and probably did look quite rough? When he pays me compliments i find it hard to believe him because were both such wind ups.
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reader, little lilly  +, writes (4 April 2009):
It's hard to say from what you've written. Just saying ok, when you've said good night is quite rude. It could be for a number of reasons though. It might be him giving you the brush off or it might be that he was upset with you laughing at him. Theres one way to find out, ask him.
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reader, Graci +, writes (4 April 2009):
 Hey! He maybe just feels a bit like his ego's taken a bit of a bashing! Not that you meant it...but when you laughed when he kissed you then he might have taken offence to that. He sounds as if he doesn't have alot of confidence in himself hence the reason he didn't speak to you on the night out. I think he is just a little confused to how much you like him and maybe thinks that you don't fancy him. Also I'm sure you didn't put him off because you didn't have much time to get ready. He wouldn't have wanted to kiss you if he wasn't attracted to you so don't worry! he obviously likes you alot but I don't think he sounds like the type of guy who is just after the one thing. It sounds like you get on really well when you are together so why not give him a little text asking him what he's up to and asking if he would like to chill out for a bit? what have you got to loose? I just think he's pretending he's not interested to protect himself from getting a knock back...hope that makes sense!! If he doesn't text you back then I would just leave it and go and find another hotty! Good luck!:-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2009): let him chase you girl! and next time you see him, make sure you look stunning! :)
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