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anonymous
writes:I am a 26 yr old Catholic girl. My boyfriend is 41. He is divorced and has 2 children and we are very much in love. We are waiting for a house offer to go through and are very excited. We plan to marry and have kids.the problem is: when he has a drink he gets very jealous and argues with me - normally about ex boyfriends and asking if i really love him. the next day he apologises and asks me just to ignore him when he gets like that. but its really doing my nut in. i love him and will never ever cheat. he moans at me if i question his love for me, saying "dont be daft of course i do" but its another story when its the other way round. any advice?My mother is a very strict catholic and i have deceived her by not telling her he's divorced. I know that when the time comes i wont be able to have a catholic wedding and i know this will destroy my mother. Any advice???...MOD NOTE: THIS IS 2 QUESTIONS COMBINED INTO ONE BY A MOD.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2009): He has two choices, one to stop drinking as his behaviour is unacceptable when he's had a drink.Or two you leave him as this will only get worse, you cannot change the past so what does he expect you to do about it??? Also his age is obviously what causes the problem as he can't believe you want him. Tell him he'll push you away with this behaviour.As for your mum, it's not her wedding day. You can say you're having a low key weeding to cut cost as you want any money to go into your new home ready for when you start a family.I hope your man sorts out his problem as if he doesn't your future will be an unhappy one
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2009): that's tricky if he loves you he'll stay off the booze and if he makes you happy and you love him then theres your answer
as for your mum if she loves you then she will understand but if you really are afraid say you don't want a big wedding or you and your fiance should just take off and marry alone but she'll understand x
:) but cheer up your marrying the man you love 3
hope i've helped you xx
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