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writes:Help my friend please.. I told her what I think.. but she what to know what others thinks as well..OK.. she just told me that when she’s on the phone to her BF and she tells him she misses him.. he doesn’t say the same back he replies.. yeah? That’s good to know.. !!..WTF but when she sees him face to face and she tells him she misses him he says it back.. what is going on here? Please can you help her out. She’s a bit upset now.. they’ve been together for 4months now.. and he’s never said it back on the phone and sometimes even if she does see him he doesn’t say it back..she said she asked him why he doesn’t tell her if he misses her.. And he said he knows and he should tell her often.. but since then he’s just stopped saying it completely.. when she tells him he says he’s lying (like he doesn’t believe her)or he just looks at her..i found it a bit weird.. what do you al think?.. what is going on with him? WAHT SHOULD SHE DO NOW? thanks..x
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reader, teesie  +, writes (14 January 2009):
My guy is funny with the missing you thing too. When we first started out I would always text him miss u just out of the blue (we are both very shy but we make it work) he would always text back miss u too now its going on nearly a year and we have both gone thru some trials so we aren't our best us if u can understand that so I don't say it much anymore 1) because I already know he misses me and 2) because I don't always need the constant reassurance anymore. Over time you will feel he misses you. Something can go left unsaid. My grandmother has said that her father didn't say I love you but he did show it. Some men are that way. Some say it first and say it a thousand times and then some can't bring themself to say it but they will show you. Think about his actions for reassurance more than his words. If I am correct my guess is he is just like my guy (a shy guy) and that's not a bad thing at all :)
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reader, Ask JenniHearts  +, writes (14 January 2009):
 break up with the fool. theres no reason that she should put up with this. she's falling into a very deep hole. she needs to get out. if he really likes her or misses her he'll tell her.
on the other hand he could be one of those guys that holds in his feelings. alot of guys do that but its no excuse. if this is the case then talk to him again! don't give up on the subject untill him gives in
hope this helps
jenni hearts
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