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*Dazzling
writes:He liked me for months and showed it and I started liking him back too. But the problem was that a close female friend of his started liking him too and began to give me the cold-shoulder. We used to talk and she was even one of the ones to tell me that he liked me. But over the past few weeks she's completely ignored me. We've had a 2 week school holiday and I was just thinking that I really should show it back that I liked him. But then I went on Facebook yesterday and found out that she goes out with him and I've been really upset since then. Do you think that he couldn't be bothered waiting around for me anymore? Or that the girl wanted to distract him from me that badly? I mean he could've genuinely fallen for her now instead. I realise that. But how likely do you think that is? I caught him staring after me on the last day of the school term, and the girl was there, standing right next to him, except looking away.So, do you think that he truly likes her?Is it too late to let him know?What should I do????Any help would be really great. Thanks in advance.
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reader, Blod  +, writes (14 April 2010):
 It's possible that he likes you both. And yes, I agree that he's probably had enough of waiting for you if there's no sign that you like him back. He's moved on to the next best thing. It doesn't matter how he truly feels for her. They're in a relationship.
I think as hard and upsetting as it is, I think you're gonna have to move on. There's no point chasing after him while he's with this girl. Even though she's actually been quite mean to you, I don't think you should interfere in their relationship. Let them mess it up themselves ;-)
Be confident, happy and have fun, even if it's all an act. It'll make you more attractive and make him realize exactly how much he missed out on with you. You're still young and I'm sure this won't matter in the future. Just go with the flow and see what happens. Good luck.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (14 April 2010):
 I think you have lost in this war of affections to the other girl. She has beguiled him and is now under her control.
It is better to let him go and move on.
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