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writes: I am a female in love with a female friend of mine. We are both in our late 40's or so. I would bet my life on the fact that she was falling in love with me as well. Our flirting was so obvious that some people noticed it and said things. There is no mistake we flirted heavily. In fact some people have told me that my friend is a much happier person when I'm around her and that they see another side of her. Well in January I finally told my friend that I was feeling more for her than just friendship and she acted surprised. She denied she felt the same way. She said that I was the best friend she ever had and that she just didn't know how to act and got carried away. This was all done by email because we live in different States. Anyway this May she talked me into flying down to see her in Florida. She set it up so that I would be flying into Florida as her husband Joe was flying out to Nevada for a meeting. We had a wonderful time and things were fairly low keyed, just laughing and having a good time. The day before I left she was really quite and distant. When I asked her what was the matter she said she just didn't want me to leave. When I got home I had an email from her waiting for me, I'm not sure how to take it. The following is what the email said:: It was FANTASTIC to have you come to visit me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I also had a great time!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I hope you enjoyed your stay and you got some rest! Like I said I felt like I was on vacation too. It was nice to be with you and for Joe to be away. Just us girls!!! But it has been a very sad day for me because I didn't want you to go! My heart felt empty all day. All I could think about was you getting home ok, without any trouble. I hope everything went well for you! I know you were scared. Well, anyway, I had a GREAT time and I will sure miss you too!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! So take care and i promise to e-mail you more! I miss you already.Have a great weekend. Love and Miss you MORE!!!!! B---I called her on Tuesday to say hi and tell her I missed her and she said she really missed me and just didn't want me to leave. I need some advice as to whether or not you think she is denying her feelings for me because she is married and it would screw everything up or what. I have never had a female talk to me the way she does without having deep feelings for me. HELP!!!! I'm not looking for a lecture on the fact that she is married. I understand that and wouldn't jeopardize that. I just want to know if you feel her feelings are stronger for me than just friendship.
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reader, Confessions Of A Broken Heart  +, writes (28 July 2007):
 Mmmmm...Confussing ethier she does want to be with you but dont want too lose her husbund or she dont want too lose you and will do anything to keep you...i hope you all the best...Yuki...email me if u need any help....X
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reader, candy00s  +, writes (1 June 2007):
 from what she sent in her email its hard to work out if she is overly friendly or if she does harbour feelings for you - i can see why you are confused!
It could be like you said that she is married and doesnt want to hurt and mess things up with that.
Could you email her and ask her how she sees your friendship?
Maybe tell her that her email has sent you hope that she feels the same way?
Im sorry i cant be more of a help to you
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2007): Honestly I think she views you as a very very close friend and just didn't want you to go because you are such a pleasure for her to be around. Nothing sexual she just really cares for you.
I have loads of female friends who i flirt with even though I do not swing that way. Its just something thats done just out of jist.
I know when I left my Best friend Savannah to move away to another state i felt really empty inside. I really love her and it didn't feel very good. She is like an extention to me and we function great as a team. So i miss her alot.
I wouldn't read anything more into it.
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