A
female
age
36-40,
* Connor
writes:please help me!!!went out last night with my boyfriend and his friends and he ignored me all night to the point where i was standing alone for most of it. we argued about it on the way home big time he was shouting at me and i just slapped him in the face - i dont know wat came over me i was drunk and upset. he then said he had lost all respect for me and didnt know if he still wanted to be with me. we both said some things we shouldnt have and i apologised for slapping him. its the next day i havent had any sleep and i have been trying to ring him all morning - i dont even know if i have a boyfriend anymore wat do i do??i love him so much and cant lose him
View related questions:
drunk Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, candy00s  +, writes (1 June 2007):
 Let him get his head together and cool off then talk things through with him.
he was wrong to ignore you and leave you by yourself all night, perhaps he just got carried away with drinking and chatting that he didnt realise he had left you all alone?
xx
A
male
reader, Royofthe Rovers +, writes (1 June 2007):
 Ok, you were drunk and in the middle of a heated debate with emotions flying all around the place. Maybe you shouldnt of hit him, but to me sounds like the drink had a lot to do with that momentary emotional/physical outburst.
I think you need to give him a bit of time. The last thing you want to do is hound him with a load of phone calls, messages and the such...Give him a day or maybe two and then try to contact him. When you do i think you need to apologise first for hitting him and go from there.
Things like this are bound to happen when you mix drink with a load of emotions in the situation you were in. Its no excuse but at least you didnt do it when you were sober..
Just be patient and let him breath for a while while you gather your thoughts on what you need and want to say to him..
R
...............................
|
