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writes:Hey,I was just wondering whether any of you would know what the hell is going on with my EX. We still talk after being seperated for 10 months and for being together over a period of 2 and a half years.Basically, sometimes when we talk he's really nice and quite flirty then at other times he's really horrible.For instance today we were talking and we were being really nice and he was saying how gorgeous he thinks I am etc then we were talking about a friend of mine and he slagged off my friend so I defended her and he started being arsey with me saying stuff such as..."Ah, I'd love to just put you in a box and burn set it on fire" and I then said "Yeah, I realise you wouldn't give a damn if I just dropped down dead right now" he then replied with "Nah I think you're an ace girl I just don't care like I used to" So I was like 'what is going on here' one minute he's really nice the next he's being really psychotic and weird he said he was only joking about what he said and I said "yeah well it wasnt funny" and he then said "you know what piss off come back when you're in a better mood you silly cow" so I just left and then later he texted me saying "sorry about earlier babe xx" What the hell is going on?(Sorry about the language guys)Thanks it's much appreciated. xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2007): Hmmmmm just a question but why did you seperate, did your friend get involved when you both broke up? sounds like he has a problem with your friend not you.
he seemed to be all nice with you until you started to talk about your friend maybe he blames her for your break up?
At the end of the day you two are no longer together and havent been together for the past 10 months so there for you dont have to put up with his nice as pie act one minute and then nasty act the next. Remaining friends with ex's is one of the hardest things to do, some people manage it find, others cant get through the past.
If you dont want him back in your life and treating you like that then i suggest you ster clear. If you are still inlove with this guy then maybe you both have a lot of talking to do about the things you both feel that need to change.
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reader, kenny +, writes (11 February 2007):
 I don't know if you are still in love with this guy, which is why you still talk after ten months. But i think this guy carry's abit of a Jeckle & Hyde character, being that of a nice personality, and then a nasty personality.
Did he adopt this kind of attitude while you were dating?
If you are not carrying any feelings for this guy i would drop him, and just speak to friends who give you the respect you deserve.
Good luck x
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