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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes: me and my bf have been going out 3 months. today i found a conversation he had with his x on msnshe webcammed him dirty pics and he egged her on and asked if she still fancied himi saw it and walked outi came back after an hour he said come back he explained that she was going out with one of his mate's mates and they wanted to see how far she would go with another guyi am really hurt by this he hasnt cheated on me and i believe this is why he did it and i no he really doesnt like his ex.but im sososo hurt what should i do :'(
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reader, Dr. John +, writes (11 February 2007):
This doesn't sound like a very mature thing for him to do but guys do have the tendancy to take a little longer to mentally mature and this may just be a kind of adolescent act that will pass.
If you love him like you say you do, be on guard but give him the chance to redeem himself in your eyes.
If this kind of activity continues though, muster the strength to drop him like a hot potato. Doc.
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female
reader, cd206 +, writes (11 February 2007):
You have every right to be hurt by this. In some ways it was as bad as physically cheating on you. The thing you need to decide now is whether you can move past this or whether you've been too hurt by it.
CD
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