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I'm so hurt by what he did.... :o(

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Question - (11 February 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 February 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

me and my bf have been going out 3 months.

today i found a conversation he had with his x on msn

she webcammed him dirty pics and he egged her on and asked if she still fancied him

i saw it and walked out

i came back after an hour he said come back

he explained that she was going out with one of his mate's mates and they wanted to see how far she would go with another guy

i am really hurt by this he hasnt cheated on me and i believe this is why he did it and i no he really doesnt like his ex.

but im sososo hurt what should i do :'(

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A male reader, Dr. John United States +, writes (11 February 2007):

Dr. John agony auntThis doesn't sound like a very mature thing for him to do but guys do have the tendancy to take a little longer to mentally mature and this may just be a kind of adolescent act that will pass.

If you love him like you say you do, be on guard but give him the chance to redeem himself in your eyes.

If this kind of activity continues though, muster the strength to drop him like a hot potato. Doc.

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A female reader, cd206 United Kingdom +, writes (11 February 2007):

cd206 agony auntYou have every right to be hurt by this. In some ways it was as bad as physically cheating on you. The thing you need to decide now is whether you can move past this or whether you've been too hurt by it.

CD

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