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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Just wandering what peoples thoughts are of what a casual relationship is? Ive been with my boyfriend nearly 3 yrs. We dont live together and we see each other bout 3 to 4 times a wk. Never been on hol. Hes 30. Goes out drinking allday with his mates. They seem to come first. Hed do anything 4 them! I dont get invite out with him and his friends. He always organised nights out without telling me. Goes to weddings without me. I want more now. I asked if he would ever move in with me he said he doesnt know.he says he loves me but he said hes on the edge of wanting to settle down bv doesnt want to be dull and doesnt want to be forgotten! For he reputation! He was a womenizer and still acts like one! He says things like he has to turn women down 4 fun! This isnt doing me know good. I dont feel worthy enough. I do everything for him. And he cant even spend time withme when i ask. If footballs on thats more important than seeing me! Hed rather have a night having his mates round than not seeing me even if it aint been a wk. Im lonely unhappy and need attention!
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reader, Lilly Rose +, writes (13 May 2009):
 You need to get your own life, go out with your friends, don't wait for him to live your life, hes ok living his life seeing his mates etc what are you doing? dont waste time on this man, turn the cards on him, show him you can have your own life to and im sure he won't like that and will come to agreement with you to spend more time together! Maybe hes not happy, maybe he wants best of both worlds, single life fun and a good girlfriend! Dont let life slip you by.....enjoy it have fun!
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