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writes:Ok here is what happened. This weekend I went to my cousin's family party and in there I got super drunk! I got so drunk I forgot everything. All I know is that I had unprotected sex in the bathroom! I feel so ashamed I want to dissapear and what if that guy tells someone in my family????? OMG I AM SO EMBARRASED SO ASHAMED I FEEL SO DIRTY AND I WANT TO MOVE OUT AWAY. [Added from the same user]this weekend there was a family party and i got so drunk that i did something embarrasing, i think you guys know what. Unprotected sex in the bathroom how stupid, shameful and bad. Everytime I remember I feel like crying, killing myself and dissapearing. to make things worse my family thinks I am "pure" and this guy is best friend with my cousin so for sure now everyone in the family knows which makes me feel so ashamed please give me advice to make me feel better or something! :( i wish i was invisible
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks so much you guys for all your answers, yes I went yesterday to planned parenthood and got the morning after pill and I have to go there in two weeks for some test put thanks for all your kind words
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reader, 48years  +, writes (9 December 2008):
 The best way to stop a rumor, if it goes that far, is to make up one even more outrageous: "Oh yeah, he did me in the bathroom 3 times and then I got my friend to join in-" Then raise one eyebrow and laugh.
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reader, mightaphodite +, writes (8 December 2008):
These thing's happen. You're not the first. Even if they do find out, their shock, if any, won't last long. You have one option: be strong and simply don't be embarrassed about it! At this moment you have a much more important issue to deal with - unprotected sex. See your doctor ASAP, he/she'll explain what kind of tests you have to do. When all of this is over, hopefully without any consequences, think about why you got so drunk... there has to be a reason. Be strong and positive. Good luck!
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