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writes: I like a girl at school and I want to ask her out, but I'm scared she'll say know. What should I do?P.S. We're sort of friends Reply to this Question
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii  +, writes (20 October 2007):
 i would agree with the aunties that have placed answers here...but all i would say in adding to that is trust your instinct on it..and make sure you two really do have a strong bond...
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A reader, Los, writes (30 January 2005): I would ask out with a group of friends so she don't feel too nervous or pressured. If she acts cool/normal around u. Kinda talk to her on the side u know feel the situation out see how she is acting around u. Then next time i would say something.
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (30 January 2005):
 Hi there,You're being friends already is a great start! She already knows you, and she must like you, or she wouldn't be your friend. The way it looks to me is that your chances are much better asking your friend out than asking a girl you don't know very well.Start with something small and not too intimate. You don't have to ask her to a candlelit dinner! Just see if she'd like to go skating with you, or to a movie, or for a walk one afternoon. Keep it low-key and not too expensive, so she doesn't feel too anxious about accepting or declining.A note to you: if she isn't interested in going out, that doesn't make you less desireable as a person. You'll never get 100% of girls to find you attractive - that's pretty obvious - so don't sweat it. And if she does say No, all you have to say is, "OK, thanks anyway. If you change your mind, let me know, because the offer's still open." Smile, and that's the end of it. It doesn't have to be awkward, unless you make it so.Of course, all that's mostly irrelevant, because there's a pretty good chance that she'll be excited about going out with you. Make sure that you give her all the details about where you plan to go and what time you're going to leave and return, so she can fill in her folks. (When you've got her parents on side, you're really on your way.)Don't be worried; I'm sure you'll be okay!Good luck.
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