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writes:Today I was with my bf and his mate and a couple of my mates in a classroom. I end up getting shoved into a closet with my bf while he makes sounds to basicaly put on a show to anyone outside. When we were finally let out he said something. Not sure exactly what. And when i looked at my mates i noticed who was behind them. His teacher! I was so embarrassed and he just calmly asked me and my mates to leave. What about if he tells the other teachers to watch me and I get a reputation of being a slut or something.. when i didnt actually do anything!? Reply to this Question
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reader, leanne.od +, writes (27 September 2007):
 OMG! i completely feel sorry for you, i can't imagine how embarrassed you must have been but by tomorrow there'll be something new to talk about.
in the meantime however, have a chat with your boyfriend and tell him that you don't appreciate being made the butt of his joke and you're not happy about it because he knows how inappropriate it was but also remember - teenage boys are immature, they do grow up when they get to about 30!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2007): Tell the teacher exactly what happened and put them in the picture, that way then no one can have the wrong idea.
But i bet it will be a three day wonder and everyone will forget about it. One big joke so dont dwell on it too much.
take care
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reader, brooke5426 +, writes (26 September 2007):
 oh dear. thats definitely a cringey moment. but i really dont think your teacher thought you were doing anything. he is bound to be well experienced in dealing with teenagers and he will know that they all joke around about sex - especially boys - im sure he would know your boyfriend was just fooling around and playing the fool in front of his friends. theres nothing at all shocking about what you have said , its just the way teenage boys behave and its completely typical of them. it goes hand in hand with the crude comments and jokes they tend to tell. hormones have a lot to answer for hey?
Dont worry about it, im sure your teacher was not shocked and i really dont think he will be running to the staff room telling everyone to make sure you have your nickers on at all times! just tell your boyfriend that it was embarrassing and he needs to grow up a little bit and not carry on like that in a classroom. theres a time and place for being silly or it can all backfire as you found out.
Brooke
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2007): If you're worried, approach the teacher & explain that nothing happened but you're worried about the perception he might have of you based on how it looked.
Either they'll believe you or they won't... but if you take that initial step of initiating such an obviously-uncomfortable discussion (and let him know that you are uncomfortable but that it is important to you that you not be mis-perceived), I'd say that'd go a lot further in upping his respect for you than anything to the contrary!
With regards to you b/f's mates, if they say anything, just laugh & say "yeah, he wishes!" - that'll make your b/f feel about 2 inches tall for doing such an immature thing.
I'd predict though that this'll be a non-issue before you know it. So don't worry too much.
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