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writes:Hi allBit of help please, me and my boyfriend split last week. He's saying he still had strong fellings for his ex, and that he liked me but didn't love me after 9 months together, thing is she's still with her current boyfriend. My ex and her have already slept together, but then the weekend coming he said he was going to ask her to choose him or her boyfriend, I think she will choose my ex but, if she doesn't I'm thinking my ex may want to get back with me but if he does I'm not sure what to do, part of me says yes and part of me says no, I think I would, if he had not slept with her.For the past 3 days I've been dreaming about him a lot which wakes me up and it's mainly always involving her in it. Please help me clear my mind.sara louise jones
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (20 October 2008):
 I agree with Emily, do not settle for being a second best choice. Don't let him use you. Look forward and never back and you'll find the guy for you.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (20 October 2008):
Do not get back with him.
You will be a miserable mess knowing that you are simply his back up plan, his second choice and that if she clicked her fingers he would come running.
Walk away with your head held high and leave him to do what he wants. It's his loss that he never realised how great you are. Find a man that does.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, accused +, writes (20 October 2008):
 Why would you want to be with someone that is basically putting you second on the girlfriend chain? There is nothing in this world that will ever compare or even be bargarined for is your self worth & resepct! and basically what this situation boils down too, Is if she doesn't pick him, then he will pick you to what avoid being alone? He has already told you that he don't love you, and that he still has feelings for his ex whom he has slept with recently! So my advice is "hell no" don't take him back! Let him go.... Find someone who will love and respect you the way you deserve..
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