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writes: hi, i need urgent help cuz i realized that i have a steamin crush on my older brothers best friend.hes four years older to me,and i really like him.hes the guy i want to be comitted with.but m afraid ,wat if he thinks of me as his sister aswell?and m afraid that i would spoil my brothers friendship.help needed
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reader, Smiler +, writes (5 June 2006):
 Hey there
Well sweetie you have a crush on your brothers friend, i can remember those days cause i bet his friend is there all the time huh? you get embarrased can't look him in the eye but will do things for them like coffee's toast etc... just to get a glimpse of this guy right but i bet you he hasn't even noticed you right? my advise to you sweetie is your young enjoy this crush that seems to be taking over your life right now but be prepared for the rejction that will inevitably follow if you decide to persue this hun!! ok . he is undoubtably the best thing since sliced bread to you but alas sweetie like you say he is 4 years older than you and is unlikely to be able to see you for the true beauty you are, he will only see the young girl with a crush thing and will probably be more embarrased by your crush than flattered so honey your young enjoy life and enjoy the crush but enjoy the man of your dreams from afar... :-)
I hope my advise helped you a little, Good luck sweetie, if you ever wanna talk or just more advise feel free to email me i'm always here for you ok would love to hear from you again
You Take Care Sweetie X
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2006): You have a crush on someone you don't know much about. Fantastic. You must be quite young. [ponders] If your brother is the immature type with the mindframe of a bigot, then for sure, negative things may ensue if you proclaim your undying super crush on his friend. However, if your brother is a "ah, whatever" type of guy, then great, then go and proceed to shower his friend with your delicious crush. If he rejects you, then he does. It might hurt like falling on a porcupine, but if you don't do it, you will never know, now would you?
Silly girl, once you have experienced the world enough, you will find that this dilemma you have is cherry pie compared the toxic wastes of problems in your later years - if ever. EVERYTHING is a risk - even if you don't do anything.
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