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writes:Ok, so I'm sitting here trying to figure out how to get over this crush with a guy I barely know. I mean, I know him because we attended grammar school together but that was so long ago! We came across each other online recently but it hasn't gone further than us catching up. And that was four months ago. The thing about it is, I haven't been able to get him out of head since then and it doesn't make matters any better that I already have a boyfriend of four years. I don't really want to go into detail about my relationship, and i think I already know why I might have the crush. My question is what can I do to GET OVER HIM! I've tried thinking of him negatively but being that I don't even know the person he is now, it's hard for me to that. I'm racking my brains out over this and I probably just need someone to smack the crap out of me to do the job. Please I need honest answers, even if you have to be harsh...no beating around the bush because I think my friends have done enough of that. Thanks in advance.
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reader, a_decent_1  +, writes (29 December 2008):
 Getting over a crush is actually VERY SIMPLE.. Actually the world around us is too romantic and keeps on telling us how difficult it is to get over a crush.. It is quite easy Infact.
All you need to do is Put YOURSELF above this guy.. Just be Arrogant and realise that he's not good enough for you.. That's it.. Once you upgrade yourself and degrade a person, you start to get over him..
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reader, miss.bexii  +, writes (29 December 2008):
 well honey you have to think about are you happy in the relationship you are in now? or do you want more, and maybe you need to evaluate your relationship and see what the guy you have a crush on has that your current boyfriend doesn't, and maybe you can't get over him because deep down inside you don't want to. you need to think about this and consider how you really feel.
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