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writes: I have quite a dilemma right now. Last Monday, I went up to snowboard, alone. At the top, this extremely gorgeous guy started flirting with me. Each time I went up, it was obvious he was into me. I never did get his name though...The next time I went, I went with my 2 friends, and thought it would work out great, with backup and all. My one friend was an immature, annoying girl,(we'll call her Nicole) but unfortunately I had no choice, she wanted to come so bad. The problem was when I called my other friend (call her Fran) over and told her I spotted lift guy, she got a little excited to see him, and Nicole freaked out and the bunny hill is so small he could possibly hear everything. There were also 2 other girls who looked at me, gave me dirty looks and was talking to the lift attendant at the bottom something, then turned to me. I dont know what she was saying at all, but it didn't look good. Well, when I went up, I saw him, he looked at me, and nothing. Nothing happened. He knew who I was alright, because I got the head turn from him, but was so nervous I didn't do anything. He said something to the other girl and ended with "and her" and nodded to me. You ride up on a conveyer belt thing, not a lift, so maybe because he was in front of 4 girls at them time, he didn't want to flirt with me. I'm not sure, and I'm extremely confused and embarassed. However, He's 18, I'm 15, and he smokes. I mean even if it wasn't like a bf/gf thing, just friends, I'd be fine with that. But I couldn't get myself to go back up there today. Had I been alone, it would've worked out.Am I just being paranoid about the situation, or did I really make a terribly wrong mistake by making it obvious and then ignoring him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2006): Actually he asked my age and if I worked there...and threw a snowball too.
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (26 February 2006):
 You did make a mistake by telling your friends you liked him, you should have kept it quiet as all he had done was smile and be friendly.
You blew it when your friend opened her well meaning mouth and then again when you ignored him, the poor guy must have been mortified.
To rectify this you need to go up alone and smile at him, say hi and ski, take it easy with him and see what signals he sends your way.
If he is just not interested just accept this and move on.
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