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writes: I'm 13 and my bf's 17. I've been with him for just over 3 months but we don't see each other very much beacause he lives 20 mintues drive from me! Right, the problem is I've never really had a serious bf before and so I'm a bit shy around him and sometimes un-sure of what to do. How can I be more open with him? I'm also worried because I know he's going to want a proper kiss sometimes and I don't know what to do because it'll be my first kiss! What can I do?!?! Please help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2008): wow 13 dating 17? thats messed up
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2007):
well this is a very good question because im 13 as well and my bf asked me to makeout with him on my 14th birthday wich is in june 2007 and i dont no what to do but i asked my best friend and she said that when it comes to the time you will know that it is right and if he makes the first move then just follow his leed and if he really loves you like he says he does then he will understand that you need more practice. so just go ahead that is what i am going to do. i love my bf very much and i know that this will be the best kiss ever.
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reader, mystify +, writes (5 March 2006):
 i think he is more or less an adult and at 13 you need to be very careful , there is not much else i can say as at 13 i know that it will probably be ignored , but just be careful
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2006): Tell him!!! The whole 'cute inexperienced thing' will work, ask him to teach you how to kiss properly... Hours of fun!
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (26 February 2006):
 Your first love is always going to be special, and you are right he is going to want to kiss, this is scarrey but natural and will just come to you.
The distance is something you cannot do anything about so that is that, the worry I have is that you are below the age of consent and he is above it, so here is the lecture, dont feel pressurised into doing anything other than kissing, and remember if he tries anything stronger his is breaking the law and your parents can have him prosecuted.
Take it slow and be more friends that anything more heavy there is loads of time for anything more full on.
Because of his age you may feel you need to do more than you are comfortable with but dont, have fun and get to know each other, enjoy your first kiss and take it easy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2006): omg. I was so in your shoes when I was 13. I'm 21 now. My first love, kiss and everything. We did break up after a couple years yet we always found our way into each others arms throughout the years. In fact this year we got together and he proposed! I'm still not totally comfortable with him. About the kissing if he doesn't know then send him an email if your that worried or scared. I understand it's probably hard to see him--it was for me. When the kiss happens relax and go with the flow. It'll be when u least expect or prepared for it. I'm sure you'll have more to follow to make up on if you make a mistake (which I am sure you won't). First kisses happen tons of times each day.
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