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26-29,
anonymous
writes:First off, I know this is not about relationships, but it's still about friendship. Sorry about the fact that this is long, it's just a complicated story.I have 3 friends (I have more by the way, they're just the ones in the story, haha)lets call them A, B and C for now,and we always hang out and do fun stuff together. But lately is has completely changed. One incident was when I invited one of them for a sleepover because my mum would only let me have one person to stay round. My friend agreed so everything was cool, but the next day she texts me saying "Can't come to sleepover, sleeping round A's house" I didn't really understand so I asked her about it on msn later and she said "I forgot that I was sleeping round A's house when I said I'd come to yours" I was a little annoyed by this but I didn't let it bother me. Then lately the three of them have been hanging out alot lately, and not inviting me. I'm not saying I should be there all the time but they act as if they don't care how I feel about it. But this is where the trouble started.We were planning a caravaning holiday in the summer in July, so we had loads of time to plan it. And the great thing was, they said I could spend a day with my REALLY good friend who moved away(who happens to be a boy) so I was ecstatic about that. But then they said how there was only room for 3 in the car since A's dad and younger brother would be going to, and since they're all close, I couldn't go. This didn't annoy me since it wasn't their fault but what happened next did... we kept thinking of ideas to make it work, I wanted to go so much it was unbelievable, so I kept offering to give my friend money to hire a car and everything! I felt like I had to go. But no matter what I said "A" just kept on saying it wouldn't work. I was so upset. I told the boy I was going to see about it and he was so upset, almost angry. The thing is, me and my friends are perfect mates and we get on so well.The help I am looking for is A) do my friends see something wrong with me? B)is there ANY WAY to get on the holiday? Thankyou so much, you have no idea what this means to me. THANK YOU!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2009): You need to talk to your friends about how you feel. If this happend to me I would be very upset. I don't see any reason as to why your friends would see something wrong with you. Why can't you just all squeeze in the car? Double-buckle or something. Or, if you're really desperate to go, pay for a car and go by yourself and meet them there. But, I think you do have issues with your friends and you need to talk to them and work it out.
Best of luck.
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