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writes:My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years, 4 years in June. The fact is, he and I met over the internet and that is how our relationship started. We talk on the phone every day, and sleep on the phone together every night. We've never met, but that isn't part of my question.Recently, we've been experimenting with Phone sex. I have no real experience with Sex, [to tell the truth, I've never even had my first kiss and he is my first serious boyfriend], so I've pretty much been basing what I say during phone sex on what I've heard, read, or seen on movies, which I'm pretty sure isn't all that accurate. I know it sounds weird that I'm so inexperienced and having phone sex, but hey, it floats my boat, and his at the same time, so it works out good for both of us.So when we have phone sex, we both masturbate. I know he likes it when I moan, and I have no problem in doing that since I'm already moaning a bit from pleasuring myself. He likes me describing what I'm doing, and how I feel. I'll tell him how bad I want him, tell him how hard he feels, stuff like that, as if he was actually there with me, and I'm just telling him what he is doing. He'll say stuff too, so I'm not doing all the audible work, like how good /I/ feel, where his hands would be, he talks dirty in italian too, which is incredibly hot. But what else can I say? Guys, are there certain phrases that make you go crazy during phone sex, or noises? Girls, do you know anything that would make my side of the phone sex a bit better? I try to masturbate as long as it take him to cum, because I feel that as long as he is enjoying himself, I certainly will take the opportunity to do the same. I don't have any sex toys to use, so what items might be safe to use for my pleasure? And even though I have been masturbating for quite some time, I'm still not sure if I have cum before, so how do I know if I have?Thank you all very much, I appreciate any responses I get, ~ "Telefrustrated"
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2009): I know exactly how you feel. And I guess only us "young teenage girls" understand better. I feel extremely comfortable having phone sex with my "boyfriend" that I have never met. Especially since I could never be sexual in person. Not to mention, you don't have to worry about him going off and bragging to his friends.
You'll know when you cum when you're at the climax of you 'pleasuring' yourself. Your body will start to shake and you'll have a long sigh of relief.
A few household things you can use are hairbrushes, expandable shower heads, anything you would find is in the typical shape of a penis. I would not suggest you use food. I have heard many infections come from when people use cucumbers, bananas, whatever. I just wouldn't risk it.
I hope this helped.
& Good luck meeting for the first time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2008): omg ! I thought my boy and I were the only ones ! We sleep together on the phone everrry night, and now I can't fall asleep unless he's on the phone. We started having phone sex when we were both drunk one night and it was prettty much amazing. I don't know if I could go 4 or 5 whole years without meeting him though. we've been together for 3 months and im meeting him during christmas break. im 17 and even though we met on the internet I know he's the one for me.
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reader, petina1  +, writes (11 December 2008):
 let us know how long the relationship lasts after you have met him in person. You may suprise yourself. good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionLordy. It seems this was rather pointles... I am meeting him in February, if you all really needed to know. I didn't ask about what you all think of my relationship, thanks. I just wanted to know what else I can do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2008): in all honesty, this isnt really a relationship is it. you say youve been with this ggut 3 years but you have never met him? youre 18, , which is an age were you know what you want for yourself and how you feel. why not arange tomeet this guy as you could feel completley different when you meet him. you cant live alife with a relationship of never meeting the other person.
on the other hand, you will know if you cum, trust me, just keep going andyoull get there
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAlso, when I say we sleep on the phone together every night, I mean we literaly sleep on the phone. I have to wake up every two-ish hours to switch batteries and call him back since my phone is retarted and dies. We've only had phone sex twice so far.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI apreciate your input, but please refrain from trying to discourage me from the relationship. I'm 18, and I am perfectly capible of determining if a situation is acceptible to me or not, or if I need a 'real life' person. I have one.
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reader, petina1 +, writes (6 December 2008):
You will know when you do. You should try to get out of this situation now and find a 'real life' person because then you will be able to move on with youre life. I think you are in a rut to be behaving in this way with a guy you don't really know or of his background. You are only young and you need to be going out in to the world and spending your time finding new and interesting things to do. I'll bet you anything if you ever meet this guy, he won't be in the least what you have imagined. hope this helps.
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