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writes:Drunkly added a girl (21) as a friend on a internet networking site. chatted a few times here and there online. decided to meet up for drinks and food about a week or two before the holidays(2008). Had a great time and amazing conversation. Continued to see her. eventually kissed her and had sex with her New Years. Have had sex with her one other time. I havent seen her due to our busy and conflicting "schedules". This was her winter break time between changing colleges. So all in all we've been seeing each other from our first meeting for 2 months. She had later mentioned that she was surprised that I didn't try to kiss here the first time we met up.After chatting with her the other night online I brought up the topic of what you could call us. So we're dating. But she say's I'm not her type., and therefore we would never have a relationship. she says she's loves and needs lots of sex, and that i'll be sick of her needing sex. She say's she has a good time with me. She's had many sexual and relationship partners. Her previous relationships all have been with dicks/assholes, words she has even used.we have a solid date together on valentines weekend (just happens to be valentines day, not pre-planned). I dont think she'll actually want to see me before then. shes a spur of the moment girl, i need a little planning, but i'll more than drop stuff to go be with her.She drinks alot and has a horrible relationship with her family, especially her father.I haven't gotten much backstory other than that. I'm thinking there could be some sexual abuse in her past.See my dilemma:I'm pretty sure she's seeing/having sex with other guys. I want to be the only guy she's seeing/having sex with. How should I bring that up to her/address that issue?why do people believe they have to stick with their types?especially if their bad relationships?I'm a ice gut but I can easily be a arrogant mean guy,with that "bad boy" mentality but it's annoying to play.should I be a bit more edgier?Thanks hope this is all clear and concise.
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reader, lebnosaj +, writes (28 January 2009):
lebnosaj is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI'm 25
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2009): Your profile says your are between ages 13-15 is this true? I would like to give you advise but i am not sure how to do that, kids nowadays are having sex more than what I get my period, and its gross to see where this beautiful thing God gave us to share with one and only one person gets splattered over primary and middle school like the menu of the week.
Any way my advise, you can not make a person change their ways and if this girl loves sex so much you better go get yourself tested, 1st of all, then you need to ask yourself what this girl has that’s got you so hooked on her, is she really the kinda woman you picture in your head, is she the one you picture yourself with? When you had sex with her, did you feel like you were connecting with this girl? Coz sweetie she obviously wasn’t feeling it, she is not right for you her moral values aren’t right, you sound like an intelligent man, tell me how ca you make her stop if she is having so much fun???? People like this only has fun until they get tested positive, and then they have already ruined tooooooooooo many lives, don’t try and save this girl she wont ever be yours you will get hurt dear, I can guarantee you that.
Please let me know how old you are as this is going to bug me the whole day
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