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writes:What does seeing each other mean, does it only reference to dating? This girl and I have been texting for nearly 2 months and i see her every saturday evening when she'll happen to be on a night out with her friends just like i will. But we always text to find out where each other are, then meet up and spend the rest the evening hanging out and getting with each other and then we go our separate ways at the end of the night. (Just want to point out we aren't friends with benefits we haven't slept together and we've never gone back with each other).I know you must wonder why don't we go on a proper date, but with uni schedule, work, societies it's the one night we both have free that week, so we understand. And this way we get to hang out with our friends and see each other. This has been going on for like i said nearly 2 months, so a while. My friends asked me the other day, are we seeing each other, but then i couldn't answer the question because i don't know what i'd call us... We text a lot and meet on nights out, but i don't know if that's seeing each other? One the guys said if she's the only girl i'm texting and meeting up with on a night out then it is seeing each other, just a different form...what do you guys think, what would you say we are? And please don't mention the going on a date, i'd love to but her work and mine clashes so the timing isn't right yet! I just want to know what you would say we are, seeing each other or just friends?
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (5 November 2012):
 I agree with SAGEOLDGUY... if you are "seeing each other" that means you are dating seriously enough to be exclusive and be sexual.
take ONE weekend day and plan to see each other without friends.... just the two of you.
seems to me you want to but you are both HIDING behind the "we are too busy" idea.... amazing how much time you will find to have a relationship if you really want to.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (4 November 2012):
 IN my parlance.... "seeing each other" MUST mean that you see ALL of one-another.... i.e.: That you "see" one another WITHOUT any clothes on!!!!!!
BUT.... that may be just me and MY definition of "seeing each other".....
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reader, fishdish +, writes (4 November 2012):
 if you like each other enough then you two should have a proper date the one night the two of you share--you're so busy usually sharing it with friends that you're missing out on an opportunity to take it to the next level. They can take care of themselves for one night, can't they? ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2012): If you have to ask what"seeing each other" means. I suggest that you take the night that you normaliy go out. Stay in and do something productive, like your homework. There will be plenty of time to learn "these things" when you grow up and become a big boy...!!!...Terminator
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2012): Seeing each other is a romantic thing, it implies you're intimate with each other in some form and/or are dating. Kissing, cuddling, basically you are romantically interested in each other.
If you haven't kissed, cuddled or been in any way intimate or romantic then you're just friends. Call it what you like, if there is no romance then all you have is a friendship.
It's basically what you call it when you're dating a girl but you're still basically only meeting up and getting to know each other but you are being intimate, emotionally and/or physically.
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