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*herimarie
writes:Ive been seeing a man now for about 4 months and have fallen in love with him...he tells me that he cares about me,,and we spend 4 nights and 5 days together all the time, i live at his place more than my own. Now he's talking about us maybe moving in together. My question to you is; what does it mean when a man looks you in the eyes all the time and says "what am i gonna do with you"? and he tells me that he's confused about me....is that a good thing? we are so close and i think he's falling in love with me too, but i need to know what he means when he says that to me. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2010): Coming from a male perspective, we are rarely deeper than what we are saying. I agree that he may not know what to do next, or what he is feeling. My guess is that he is falling for you but doesn't want to admit it yet. It also may be his way of saying that. Some men have difficulty expressing their feelings so they come up with "alternatives" that you have to learn what they mean.
I know that when I say that, it is usually in a joking manner. When my GF picks on me or does something goofy, that's usually what I say. To me, it's a way of calling her a goofball while drawing some "sympathy" to myself.
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reader, Araelia V  +, writes (3 March 2010):
 it may be more about him than you...he may never have been in a relationship with anyone like you or in the way he is with you before and may just feel insecure. Talk to him and ask him how he feels about you. It may seem wrong but it's acctually the case that men usually feel more insecure than women do but men don't show it as much as women do. Talk to him, if he's as honest with you as it looks like he is then everything will turn out perfectly
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