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female
age
36-40,
*iley
writes: well...my ex came back to me after a long break up.But at that time I refused to mend up because he left me for another girl. Anyways I accepted him and everything was going smoothly at the beginning. after 4 months he again started avoiding me. When I stop calling him,usually he initiates the contact. But this time I dont know what happen he told me not to call him so many times in a day. He has lot of things to do. I stopped calling him.Nextday he tried to contact me(gave me a msdcall). I didnot response. I switched my mobile off for 1 week. But now when I turn my mobile on I am not getting any single msd call, phone, or msg. I am waiting for his response. I am really missing him. What should I do now? I dont want to initiate the contact because if I do so no doubt he will take me for granted and he will do the same what he did before. What does his slience mean?? Why is he not calling me up?? What should I do?? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Lucky786 +, writes (17 May 2011):
You're lucky if I switched my phone off for a week, my ex would have had the Police at my house checking if I was still alive!If he cared about you he would be in contact. If you had switched your phone off he should have at least sent a text asking if you are okay. The problem is when we play games, sometimes they backfire on us as is the case here. I would forget about him and get on with your life. Or you could talk to him face to face and find out if you two have a relationship worth working at.
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