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female
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30-35,
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writes:my ex and I broke up a week and a few days ago but I am already over it because I know it`s better and we are not meant for each other! so my other ex(let`s call him max) and I stayed good friends even during my last relationship. he seemed pretty flirty sometimes, and like he would miss me and we often wrote on Facebook. (I know he is/was making out during the last months with a girl he had a huge crush on 2 years ago but when I told him nearly 3 months ago that I was happy for him if he was happy with her he just replied: calling me happy would be exaggerated and I am just wasting time) short time before the break up my ex and I just quarreled a lot (via text messages and one day I had invited friends and max was extremly interessted in those messages and wanted to read them all)ok and after the break up it was arranged that a couple of friends (including max) go to dinner but than everyone canceled so first there was just max and me and first I drove to him to see his flat in the city and then we drove to me so that he can see my new flat. and he it seemed like he wanted to go to dinner with me alone (because his dad called he is also in the city and if he wants to go to dinner with him but he said no) and he was really cute and it seemed like he tried to touch me often and was flirty. the next days we texted a lot (also because we had a exam together and we helped each other but he was also flirty like when I asked him if he could help me and tell me what to wear to the exam he told me: hmm probably a bikini?) and today (one week later) we had this exam and he ignored me (I also didn`t talk to him much and there were 2 other guys with who he talked the most) but I don`t really understand this?does he like me? is he just not into me? why is he the cutest guy one day and completely ignoring the other day?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2011): thanks for your advice! :))
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (27 October 2011):
 To me it does sound like he likes you. Sometimes guys ignore us to see if we will make the effort to talk to them. Maybe he was just testing you to see if you would make the effort to talk to him. If you still like him well then show him that. But you need to look back on the past and ask yourself why you and Max broke up, obviously there was a reason why the relationship didn't work and ask yourself can you both sort out those issues now and get passed them, if you feel that you can well then ask him would he like to have dinner with you again or go for a drink, maybe you could even cook for him to show him that it is special. It would also give you privacy to talk to him and tell him how you feel, you will never know what could happen unless you talk to him and be honest with him. Good luck.
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