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What does he want out of this relationship? Is he even taking it seriously?

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Question - (7 October 2009) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United States age 41-50, *erenity1 writes:

hey aunts!!!...im not sure if im young, naive, or what but im really anxious to know how this guy feels about us...i posted a question on "how serious i should take when a guy tells me we're not having sex but making love" and i got some excellent responses...

i guess now im just wondering how he felt and if he is interested in me...im guilty because i play games also...but im not going to call him for at least 7-10 days (hopefully he calls me first)...but i've known this guy for 14 of my 29yrs alive and we grew up with all mutual friends...we've always had a slight crush on one another but never really pursued anything...i had tried to talk to him on a couple of occassions in the last few years and really didn't get the response i wanted...now all of a sudden i call him and he appears and wants to see me...we ended up having sex and now i've been thinking about him every since...to the point where i don't want to talk to any of my other male friends...

this has never happened to me before...im not a player but i have several male friends that i do what i want with...they may sound cruel but it's the truth...i guess since this guy was a challenge and i finally got him...it has stook with me...

question-based on the information i've provided what do you all think of this scenario? Do you think he likes me or is interested in me for more than just seX? I'm not sure how to take this situation....afterall it's been 3 days and he hasn't called...he said he wanted to see me on weekend but i don't know maybe im just being impatient...

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