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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: Ok I heard this, that words Dont hurt but we all can say that thay do. I been told things that are not always nice all my life. But thats not whats bugging me. I have a friend that a guy and I also have a friend thats a woman I didnt think she dislike me but she be so cold with me. when i was younger she was nice to me and now that im older she so different with me and as for my guy friend she know him a lot longer then me but he and Seem to be getting close. I admit that I have feelings for him but I do let them show. Well this is the part I dont get she acts like she likes me but tell other friend things about me is wong!!! I overheard her say things like she stinks like she on her period and so on.. and if any thing I always smell good all my other friends like the way i smell I get a lot compliments and I sat next to his mom and she even sed that she like my perfume. And plus I wasnt even on my period but the fact it it hurt me bad that the guy I like and care about was told that about me. I just want to know if what she said could make his feel different about me? or how he saw me I was hope to be with him one day now I dont know what to think so please help me...thank u for taking the time to read this
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reader, mizz.butterflies +, writes (2 February 2010):
She's probably insecure and wants to gain popularity by talking bad about other people. People will believe her because they know she's close to you. As much as this might hurt you, CONFRONT HER. Ask her if she wants you as a friend if she says yes tell her she needs to be your friend not your enemy.Be clear about what you tolerate and what not. If she still doesnt know what to say,tell her you want to take a break from your friendship. This will alert her. Best of luck
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