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writes:Hi this is a question for girls only cuz i don't think guys can answer this question. Anyways i'm 13 and i have a boyfriend who's 15. And yesterday he was finger banging me but it wasn't the first time. But yesterday was different he got me extremely horny and it was really fast too. I mean after like 2 seconds of fingering me i was already horny. And i want to know if i experienced an orgasm because i'm not really sure. Do you feel like you have to pee when you are about to have an ogasm? I need answers please. ASAP!!! THANKYOU TO ANYONE WHO ANSWERS MY QUESTION.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2010): yeh it does then ur body kind ov pulses down ther n it gets faster and faster until it like explodes n cum...wel i do some ppl dry cum, and u relax i also feel waves of heat and my throat tenses my legs and my toes and tada =] its an orgasm. congrats lovely
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2010): i belive it does because that moment is the BEST moment during sex
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2010): firstly if you boyf is older than you its classed as statuary rape in the eyes of the law you are under age for sex untill you are 16. secondly if you feel the urge to have a wee then go to the loo and wee coz thats all that that is!! or it could be cystitus!! (which is a common water infection) try going 4 a pee b4 u start then hey u won't have to stop! thirdly ...popping cherry.... wont happen unless the gerth of his finger is like a wii remote! sex for the first time HURTS feels like your insides are being ripped out with a pair of scissors.hope this helpslove a random 30 year old
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2010): hey, I'm 12 nearly 13 and I havnt fingerd myself but all I doo is rub my clit and I grt this amazing feeling and I have to stop rubbing cuz i get to tired and my knees go weak so I'm not sure if tha an orgasum. I've never been finger by anyone else and havnt had sex either, loads of people in my school have had sex in my year too and I'm not haft sex untill i'm 15 beacuse I do think it's to early but oral things ain't bad, I enjoy it and i door by myself and I'm fine x
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2010): I am twenty one and lost my virginity at the age of 17 but never had experienced an orgasim with any of the guys i slept at 17,18 and 19 years of age. Recently i know that i had experienced one with my current bf and omg was it facking amazing. i literally thought he had slipped e into a drink that i was drinking. i felt like i was flying and that i was going to pass out with this amazing intense feeling. my whole body started to feel tingly and then all of a sudden i noticed that i could not keep my voice at a mono tone. i could not stop screaming! i could feel my muscles contracting and just pulsing crazily. i swear that it was a multiple orgasim bc it must have lasted for about 3 mins. My bf afterwards could not get over my reaction for it was the first reaction he as well as me had experienced. it felt so damn good so now everytime we have sex i expect to have an orgasim :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2010): the 'peeing' sensation is the turn right before magic mountain. tell him to keep going.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2010): it seems during the sweating and excursion you get a happy naughty feeling the as it skyrockets into the most amazing thing you'll ever feel your brain hops out saying "i don't want to remember this you dirty pervert and what not you can do this alone" seeing as how your "analog stick" or "button pad" has taken over your mind just now. so you couldn't stop if you got hit by a truck and fell in front of a speeding train. then after words your eyes are rolling back to their positions and your exhausted with a wet sticky mess but whats that? you cant think straight? its because your brain it still over their eating its sandwich you were saving!please note that all i have said is a mild exaggeration because i feel its more comfortable when you don't bluntly spit out the scientific terms and any slang you picked up along the way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2010): It feels brilliant to be honest :]
when i first had an orgasm, i screamed so loudly and i was shaking like crazy. It was very adventurous you could say haha. After the orgasm you may feel the need to go to the toilet but during the orgasm its just a hude explosion of a tingling sensations down there and you feel like your on top of the world, i hope that explained your answer xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2010): why the hell are guys answering this question. im a guy and i have no clue what an orgasm feels like and other guys shouldnt either.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2010): When I was 13 my so-called "boyfriend" (who was 15) at that time forced me to do what you are doing voluntarily. Needless to say I was scared and confused and completely unsure about what was happening. DO NOT BE AN IDIOT! 13 is WAY too young. Even voluntarily.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2010): no it feels like you loose control of your body your breath really heavlyy as well it feels amazing
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2010): Dude people shut the hell up. Its okay to experiment with sexuality, as long as it's safe.
You're not to young.
You'll know when you have an orgasm.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2010): im am a 14 y/o male and i KNOW not all teen men are horny creatures who want nothing more than sex.sometimes the girl will ask the guy.no matter what age if the female is felt she is ready and the male is patient enough they can do whatever the hell they want.:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2010): Okay, you're 13 and you're doing that s***. You're not even in high school. Honestly you probably like MAYBE just started you period. Although I doubt it. You need to stop being "finger banged" by a 15 year old and think about how you'll feel later on when you look back at how you were fooling around before you even started you're period. Before you even know what the heck it is that you're doing. Go watch an educational show, like Dora or something.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2010): im 13 and am a virgin (obiously).I was watching some hard porn (Link edited by Mod) and i started to feel an orgasm, my knees went weak and i felt my dick become quite weird.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2010): k well first, I'm 14, and a virgin. Also know that it's more likely that you had an orgasm if your clit was being stimulated. I was masturbating my clit when I first got extremely close to having an orgasm for the first time, I did have that sensation of needing to go pee (but it was pleasurable), I also felt my pelvic muscles contracting. But I didn't have an orgasm. I know because the next day I did the same thing (with my clit) but I noticed I didn't have the need to pee. This time there was an intense build up of pleasure in my pelvic muscles, vagina, and clit area. It really started to hit and I completely lost control. It felt like my insides were having wonderful extreme spasms and contractions that felt excrutiatingly good. My body went so rigid and I started loosibg focus on rubbing. It almost felt like I couldn't bear how intense the sensations were. What I had felt before was just a tiny hint at what it's like! Oh and minus the pee feeling. I've had many orgasms since and it's been the same. When you have an orgasm, trust me, YOU'LL KNOW!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2010): Wow... im 13 and im seeing that girls my age and age 11 are losing their virginity... WFT is wrong with you??? how can u not care about having sex for the first time.. thats pretty fricken slutty
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2010): hey im 14 and i am a virgin....i was in my bed watching porn and i got a vibrator and just rubbed it around my area and for the first time i started getting this feeling and my stomach started getting tight then i was feeling like i had to pee bad.....and i tried watching other videos and having an "orgasm" but it only works with that certain video...but an orgasm feels great...CONGRATS!! you had and orgasm....
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2010): Ello babes im 14 nd ive experience this loads of times ;) babe you had an orgasm cause ive had it loads nd thats just what it feels like x well done babe.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2010): yeah u feel like u have to pee that was a orgasm:)
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reader, bharat mehta  +, writes (12 January 2010):
 It is your right age you should have right concept about 'orgasm'
First you know the meaning of word, and then check with your "experienced meaning."
See, the first word is 'sex'. meaning of sex is 'pleasure' Then orgasm is second word, it indicate the last highest point of pleasure. Because it is last point, means there is no high point after last. It is also termed as 'climax'
Female's feeling of orgasm is not the same as male. Female's experience of sex pleasure is rooted through 'clitoris', a sex organ similar to male sex organ. But, both have these much difference.
1.Female's organ has single and only one attribute, that it generate only pleasure and nothing else.
2. Male's sex organ also generated pleasure, but it has two other function: to urinate, and to ejaculate. With ejaculation male's sex organ stop generating pleasure. Female's sex organ continued in generating pleasure. So, it has no last point, but frequency of high point.
Reading above details, check your own experience.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2010): ok i'm a dude and i know what an orgasm feel like because i get high and masturbate(i know its not good) but i do. But its basically when you are having sex and when it's to the point where its feeling extremely good you can no longer control yourself. you basically loose control over ya body depending on how demanding you are during sex. Sometimes when you have hit an orgasm you are not able to really move a lot after sex you sometimes just lay there. It's hella great for dudes who wanna experience what the woman feels smoke weed then fuck a girl or masturbate...omg hella fun
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2010): well they say that when you hit the G-spot you feel like you need to pee. i can relate to you even thoguht your tounger (im 14) but anyway its suposed to feel like you eneed to pee. im still a virgin but thats what iv been told. and wow arnt you pretty young to lose your virginity???
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2010): trust me, you'll know. It's as if you cannot breathe for a few moments, a tingling sensation from your head to your toes. The first time I had an orgasm I was 14 and my boyfriend at the time was fingering me, so I know exactly how you feel. I wondered the same thing at your age and trust me, when you have an orgasm, you will know. I almost fled to the back of the bed it was so wonderful. I had to pee, yes, but just release that feeling and you'll come closer to reaching orgasm!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2010): An orgasm feels like a wave that starts in your shoulder and moves towards the tip of your toes. you want to bend like a bow, stop breathing and close your eyes. When you feel like peeing it means you are at the beginning of an orgasm. continue for another 5 min and you will have one. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2010): Okay, orgasm are when you feel like you had wonderful sex or when you did great masturbation. I feel as if your boyfriend was fingering you and you just felt fabulous and refreshed then you've had an orgasm! I may be wrong but that is how it has always been in my mind. Hope my advice helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2010): wtf is with everyone saying your to young to get an orgasm; i was 13 when i got my first orgasm and i wasnt even fully developed.
but anyway it will take you longer than 2 sec to get an orgasm; your whole body fells refreshed and awesome after an orgasm and usually after you have an orgasm you have to go to the bathroom.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2010): You are way to young to be doing this
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2009): girl yu should not be even thinkin bout sex you only 13.
so im sure you cant get one you t2 young
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2009): Honestly. When you have an orgasm, you will know it. Until that moment you will wonder what they feel like. Then you will know. It's really that simple.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2009): Sorry, I'm a guy. But I can tell you what happened. I'm 13 also. You're probably not completely done with puberty. So you had a "dry climax" its the same thing as an orgasm only no fluid comes out. I've had those before and it feels incredible. It's the stimulation of your clitoris during intercourse or masturbation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2009): Ok haha. I'm 20 year old female, and I read couple of silly and some awesome replies. Mostly silly. The silly replies are from people who are talking about sex. First of all, she dint say anything about sex, she was talking about her boyfriend masturbating her. Or with her. His finger does not grow in his pants, it's on his hand people.I see some point in those but it's leaning away from actual question and facts she wrote. And you probably already got the answer you were looking for in that pile of comments. Not saying anything bad or good or perfect or horrible, just saying some people just go off topic when it's not even mentioned about.It's just, everywhere I go it's like that. Come on! It's funny.
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reader, tux  +, writes (13 December 2009):
 You shouldn't worry so much about sex. You are fairly young and should be careful not making mistakes along your growth... Enjoy being a kid for now.. you will have plenty of time in the future to worry about getting sexually satisfied and having orgasms rather than satisfying a young boy's desires to be sexually satisfied now.
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reader, Brandie23 +, writes (16 September 2009):
First of all I believe what the anonymous female reader about third down was very articulate, bravo. I have a difficult time with people who give advice who can't take the time to form a coherent thought.
My take, is if you don't understand and aren't knowledgeable and/or can't accept the risks don't do it whether you're 13 or 113! This goes for anything, most people wouldn't get behind the wheel of a car w/o a basic understanding of how to make it work right?
Sex is the same way. You should understand your body and your partners body, what they like what they don't, what YOU like what YOU don't.
The reality of it is, sex is a natural biological thing. Parents can ignore it but kids are going to figure it out anyway because we are built for sex like a plug and an outlet. Studies show abstinence pledges don't work
" http://soundmedicine.iu.edu/segment/1919/Teen-Abstinence-Pledgeshttp://soundmedicine.iu.edu/segment/1919/Teen-Abstinence-Pledges "
The message should be its important to wait to have sex but if you decide to here is how to be safe. Contrary to popular belief this doesn't encourage sex because it emphasizes PERSONAL choice.
The fact that you don't know if you've had an orgasm yet means you most likely didn't have one. For me I get so hot I think I think I'm going to combust and my eyes flutter closed and the heat sorta of builds until its almost painful then steadily decreases. It's a very overwhelming feeling, I'll admit I cried at my first one because the sensation is very intense.
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reader, kittybea  +, writes (13 August 2009):
Whenever you are about to climax, you should feel all you muscles tighten Hope this helps :P
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2009): Okay, when you have an orgasm, you get this amazing feeling.You will just know when it happens.So don't worry about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2009): First of all she never mentioned anything about having sex. People need to chillax. ALSO people need to stop being so judgmental.
Second, the girl who commented saying shes 10 is a pathetic liar who's asking for attention. Especially considering the fact that her vocabulary is better than half of the people's who left comments? Grow up.
Third, sex isn't for everyone. If you are thinking of it make sure your responsible and have enough knowledge about it. Don't ever rush into it or let anyone rush you. It's your decision whether you want to do it or not. If you are going to do it and don't know much about it at least talk to someone for advice, search it up on the internet or even visit a local pharmacy store and they should give you plenty of advice. Not only does this apply to sex, but also every other sexual relation, such as oral sex and etc.
Fourth, if a girl is to shy and embarrassed to buy condoms she is NOT ready to have sex. If she can't herself put a condom on a male she is not ready. In my belief. This doesn't apply to everyone because were all different.
Fifth, if you are planning to have sex PLEASE use a condom or some sort of protection being it birth control and etc.
Sixth, people need to stop judging and realize that no matter what people are always going to make mistakes. Especially the mothers who commented, think twice if you've insured your daughter or son about sexual education and what you've done to make sure they make the right decision.
Seventh, for people who say sex should be saved until marriage have a point yeah but, really think hard about what kind of environment we live in and what the media's influence is on us? Sex is EVERY WHERE.
Eighth, no you did not have an orgasm. Everyone gets one differently. I only get one when my boyfriend and I have sex a certain way. Other than that I don't get them at all.
Just give it time you'll get yours when your ready. Don't let ignorant people stress you out or make you feel uncomfortable because in the end it's YOUR decision not theirs.
Take it easy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2009): hello sweet girl. i want to first tell you that all of these people who are on here telling you that you are wrong are wrong themselves. you are a young lady and never listen to anyone who says that you arent. please just be aware of pressures that you are facing and dont let anyone influence you. most of the creeps on this website couldnt care less about you. im only on here as a class assignment. keep your HEART AND EYES ON GOD. i am seventeen years old. i am a varsity cheerleader. i am known as the "popular" girl in school. guys are constantly around me. but sweetie the most amazing feeling that you can ever ever ever get is when you accept jesus christ into your heart. why dont you spend some time online looking for him instead of reading dumb blogs like this. i am so glad that i ran across this question because when i was twelve...i messed up big and had sex. then i did when i was thirteen. but trust me hunny...cute boys willing to have sex are EVERYWHERE. being the girl who refuses to have sex makes guys want you even more. they want what they cant have.
KEEP YOUR HEAD HELD HIGH AND HAVE FAITH THAT YOU WILL MAKE IT THROUGH.
Don't let anyone look down on you because you are young, but set an example for the believers in speech, in life, in love, in faith and in purity. --1 timothy 4:12.
TAKE THAT TO HEART PLEASE MAM
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2009): ok well my when my boyfriend finger's me i sometimes have an orgasm and it is different for everyone but what i feel is tingling in my legs and it tickles in my clit and i just all of a sudden just feel soooo horny hope this helps!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2009): no sweetie , you def didnt have an orgasm , you prob just got really really horny. An orgasm is way more powerful than just that...for those 10 secs while your at your highest climax ..your mind is absolutly blank ..every muscle in your body is rigid and you feel this amazingggg sensation on your clit mostly than the rest of your vagina and most likly you release fluids when your orgasm is about to end.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2009): okay i am 17 years old and i have only had one 2 soo the experience i have had is it feels good...first it feels like thers butterrflies in your stomach but not the kind of butterflies you feel when your nerveous...its crazy then your muscles tighten and then you start breathing heavy and you cant control your body or the sound that comes out of your mouth
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2009): i was wondering to cuz sometimes when i am mastrubating i feel like i need to pee and i didnt kno i thot that i just had to pee haha
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2009): Okay, everybody, calm down. You cannot generalizations, just because she is thirteen does not mean she can't have sex. Yes, MOST thirteen year olds are not mature enough to have sex, but you haven't met this person! You have no idea who she is, therefore you have absolutely no idea if she is mature enough or not! She could be the most adultlike, intelligent, mature thirteen year old in the world and you would have no idea. So, to who ever posted judgemental and biased comments, YOU are the one who is immature.
And orgasms can feel different, but for me it feels like I really have to pee then huge release. Its the best :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2009): i am 14 and when i finger i feel lyk i need to pee but it is because i am having an orgasm and i am about to squirt. It is completely normal that you feel this most women do when they are horny and having an orgasm.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2009): dang thats kinda too YOUNG to be having sex....your body isnt fuuly developed yet....but then again you kant tell these kids nothing....i personally this 16 is the appropriate age to start having sex but thats only my opinion.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2009): Well..i lost my virginty when i was 15 and very proud to say we are still together..but yes sometimes it feels like you have too pee but god does it feel amazing!. im not gonna judge you because of your age just be safe. and good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2009): Firstly the girl is asking just one question 'What does a orgasm feel like?' I am not going to get confused with the whole should you shouldn't you concept...that is up to you - just remain safe.Orgasm is different for every single woman on the planet, for some, muscles tighten all over the body (including twitching of the anus), others feel the need to scream out loud! Yes you can feel the need to pee during climax, it is not uncommon for women to spray or squirt -this is referred to as female ejaculation, don't be ashamed of this, it is what most women spend their whole lives aiming for! There are plenty of good websites on this matter, read and learn what best suits you. Make sure you read up on safe sex and what you are comfortable with before you take the next step. You should be able to talk to your boyfriend about all of these things...if you find you are to shy then perhaps you are just a little too young to be starting this journey just yet (oops now sounding hypocritical). GOOD LUCK!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2009): Orgasm's are great, i had my first one when my bf fingered me at 12 yrs old, i wanted to wait till i was older for sex but the need was to much and i did it when i was 13, that orgasm was a lot more intense and pleasureable, now i am like 19 and it has got aa lot better as you get older, if you wanna do it then do it cause it feels amazing!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2009): LOL!
~SY.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2009): An Orgasm does not feel like you need to pee... First of all .. It kind of makes you feel like a big tinggling down there where you feel your cuchie tighting up around his penis or finger.. It will make you scream when it comes to effect.. It feels really good!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2009): Having sex young is not a bad thing. I don't mean young as in 10-13 because I think that is too young but 14+ if you are ready for it, know the concequences and take necessary precautions then I say go for it. I think there is way too much hype about losing virginity and how special it suposed to be, in reality it's not like that, sure you may regret it but who hasn't done something they regret.I think it should be a personal choice to do it and you should definatly NOT be pressured by others.Thanks. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2009): this is why girls do get pregnant at such a young age, because they can't feel like they can talk to older people, so dont be so bloody judegmental. she didnt say anything about sex, for goodness sake your all getting it way out of porportinal. and its stupid. shes asking people for advice which is GOOD. not a bad thing so stop be pathetic and get used to that the world IS moving on!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2009): You guys really need to settle down. She didn't have sex. If you are a mature and responsible, what she did was perfectly fine. A lot of you are forgetting that in earlier times, people were expected to marry around age 14. The pendulum is just swinging back around. It happens with everything over time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2009): i know that im really late and stuff but whatever well u havent has an orgasm well yea im 14 and me bf is 15 he wants me to have sex but i think is 2 soon in our
relationship but i love him and i dont know what to do
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2009): im fifteen & i wouldnt have sex at this age, i think some teenagers are stupid and just want to follow the crowd because they think it's coool, its not! i mean its fine to finger yourself etc but no sex. wait until you really know what love is
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2009): Okay, First of all who are you people to judge what age kids should have sex or become sexually active? There is no "right" age.I think that you should atleast be a teenager. But you people do not need to judge thats wrong. People are ready at there own times. And you will kno when yr ready.And to people who have a problem with the age , I am a thirteen year old girl with a fifteen year old boyfriend.! There is absolutely nothing worng with that! I love him with all my heart. And dont say if he really cares he would wait till yr old enough! thats bullSh!t!!!!!! Okay, Mann for real you people need to grow up. I bet most of yall messed around at a young age. You shouldnt be judged on what age you become sexually active, Its perfectly normal for young adults to fool around! It is okay as long as you two care about each other.
Hey, I'm sorry these people are being immature and judge you. It isn't right. I kno where yr coming from with yr age difference. I'm 13 and my boyfriend is 15. Its okay. Dont let theese people get to you.
You people are pathetic!!!!!!
(the ones that are trippin cuz yr only 13)
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2009): This site should be age restricted like all the other sites... There is no reason in hell that a 10, 11, 12, 13, etc.. should be talking about finger banging, oral, anal, or any kind of sex period... I am a mom of a 10 year old and an 8 year old and I think I would have to have someone make me 2 steel belts with a lock that I only had the key for if I even thought they were acting out sexually... I mean really.... WTF?????
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2009): having sex at 11?
What the hell is up with that I mean..youre not
even a teenager youre in what 6th grade?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2009): the 11 year old that wrote the answer
I was shocked
I mean really shocked
Im 17
and didnt lose my virginity till I was 16
I can't believe you are having sex at this age
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2009): Some people are saying shes too young to have sex does it really matter what age? I mean like 10 and below is a little bit close there but 13+ if they are ready they will know its a matter of being safe from STD's it doesnt matter what age you are you can still catch them. If they want kids at 13 or 14 hell let them. It doesnt matter what other people think of you its how you think of yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2009): truthfully i think you did cause i'm 15 and when me and my 17 year old boyfriend have sex all da time and it's always extremly good and i have my organsims i feel da same way but i really dont have to pee it's just da way i feel after it for some reason but unless you have something thats was an organsim.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2009): hi, im 11 and the other week i went on holiday. I was in the jacuzzi and i found one of those blower/massager things and i put my vagina right close to it. I moved my bakini out of the way and it felt amazing. I moved my vagina so it was right next to the blower and suddenly i got this outburst of energy and it felt very good. It rushed all around my body and made me move incontrollobly, luckily i was on my own and nobody could see me moving like this, i couldnt stop this amazing feeling running through my body for about 1 minute. After the outburst had stopped i did it again because it felt so good. On that day i experienced about 5 orgasms, it was a very pleasant time for me while i was in the swimming pool. Now ive had sex a few times and other orgasms, but the sex has to be with someone who will just get down and hard. Ive had vaginal sex and anal sex and oral sex but i enjoy vaginal the most. I hope this answers your question. and to all the people who are scared to have sex becasue they are scared it will hurt, i say just ave sex because its the most pleasurable thing that has ever happend to me, i lost my virginity at 10. I hope this answers the question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2009): First of all I am 20. I was a teen mom and had never had an orgasm. I have a 13 year old sister and If I ever found out she was even kissing a guy she would be in huge trouble, Why you ask: 1. You arent mentally capable of dealing with the stress that comes with sex. 2. You still whine to your parents about cleaning your room or if you cant go to a friends house. 3. You are still sexually maturing, your breasts havent even reached their full maturity. Having your parts touched by anyone other than a doctor or yourself is WRONG. I can go on with this. Ever since I became a parent I have had such difficulties with life in general, finishing high school, going out with friends because either my parents cant watch my son or hes too whiney cause he doesnt want me leaving.. Yes I understand you arent having sex just yet but fingering at first feels great than you want more. Fingering wont satisfy you like you were at first when you were getting fingered. I was having sex on birth control and it still happened. Pregnancy is probably the best thing that can happen to you from all of the consequences that can occur.
As to the orgasm not you did not experience one. I just had my first one two days ago as to the feeling is so intense that not teen/child can bare. It takes a lot of will power to overcome the intense feeling you acquire while getting to the orgasm. Trust me ITS INTENSE. It feels like you are getting tickled so hard you cant take it. Then you finally feel warmn and tingly and then your vagina muscles CONTRACT. You are too young to bare the tickling part to reach the orgams. Trust me I didnt know the feeling either till I experienced it two days ago..
Best of luck to you and may god give you the wisdom you need at 13.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2009): To all of you teenagers out there reading this column, it is really appalling that you think that sex is no big deal and that it's okay to be fingered, do oral sex, and things like that. Where is your self-respect? Where are your morals? I'm 24 years old, and I'm proud to say that when I married my husband at 22 years old, both he and I were virgins. We gave each other something that we can never get back. We learned how to love each other first, before we added the sexual part to our relationship. If you just go around having sex with boys, they will not respect you, especially in their teenage years. Boys are horny creatures. Period. When they are with you and they know that they can have sex with you, that's all they're thinking about. Period. They may say they love you, they may say you're their world, etc., but withhold sex from them, then see what happens. If you want someone to love you for who you are and to respect you, then you will not have sex with them until that marriage commitment is made. Having sex with someone does not mean that you love them or that they love you.
Besides all of that, just think about the STDs going around. Come on. Young women are being diagnosed with STDs at alarming rates. Think you can't get pregnant the first time? Think again!!!! Think having a baby will be fun, that it will bring you and your boyfriend closer together? Think again!!!! It's really sad to see you young ladies giving these boys something so precious. Just wait until you are married and you have made a commitment with someone before you have sex with them. I don't understand why girls think it's okay to have sex before marriage. Just because other people are doing it doesn't make it right. Why would he ever bother to commit to you if he knows he's getting all he wants from you without having to give you all that you deserve: his mind, soul, heart.
I know most of you will ignore this advice, call it old-fashioned, impractical. You may even call me names. But I don't care. I just hope that one girl reading this will understand my point and save herself for her husband. Then she will experience what real love is, and she will never wonder if he really loves her, because he would have made the ultimate commitment, taken the ultimate vow. He will truly give her his everything.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2009): You probably didn't have an organism, but him fingering you may have turned you on down there, which if he did it longer or if you had sex an orgasm could have easily come.
Believe me when I say that YOU WILL KNOW when you have an orgasm! It is the most intense feeling in the world. Your entire body tenses up and your toes curl. You could be in the most uncomfortable position but you won't feel it because it feels so damn good. You feel like you can't move but at the same time you feel like you're going to explode. I can't even put it in words but it's getting me randy just thinking about it! :P
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2009): hey ..im seventeen just nearly 18. i have so many orgasms. i love it.. i finger myself by rubbing myself on yhe clit wit 1 finger. it feels really good .. i know when i feel it coming along and when it comes it makes me want to have sex really bad and my boyfriend is in australia...
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2009): Hi, you will know when you have experienced and orgasm its pretty intense and feels really good all your muscles tense you get hot and you dont want to stop.hold off on the penetration sex for a while til you understand a bit more about your body and reproduction.I had 1st baby at 17 and thought having a baby would be cool, it is to a certain extent but the pregnancy and birth leave lasting impressions on your body esp if you need stitches or any thing like that, stretch marks, haemorroids you name it. not to mention internal vaginal examinations, blood tests etc. and caring for a baby is daunting but you try dealing with a sick baby one that has severe illness or disability all which could happen you never know! so all im saying is have fun but play it safe im sure at 18 you wanna be drinking with your mates not changing nappies!!(or catching STD's who knows who they been with before? and who those people have been with!)Always use a condom even if your on the pill and be careful if your doing oral sax you cant get pregnant but you can catch AIDS!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2009): ok all my friends have gotten fingered and giving head and stuff but i havent. Because my friends are does that mean I should too?btw were all 13/14
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2009): To the poster below me:
Well of course you don't think she's too young to have sex you're only two years older than her! You are BOTH too young to be having sex. BUT since you probably won't even listen to what I'm saying just remember to stay safe ok? Great.
AND to answer your question little one:
No, you didn't have an orgasm. Just wait, it'll come eventually.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2009): i don't agree with everyone that's saying 13 is too young to be having sex.i mean, i'm 15 and my boyfriend (who i have been with over 7 months and i am pretty positive i am completely in love with him) wants to finger me and me to wank him off. even though i've never done it before, i still want to! and i don't think everyone should be having a go at her because she's "too young" did she say anywhere that she was having sex with her boyfriend at all? no. she said he was fingering her. even if she was sleeping with him, then i don't see why everyone has such a problem with it. most people go through puberty at the age of 11/12 ish, so why not be sexually active if you're ready to have a kid at that age. and to be brutally honest, it's her own fault if she gets pregnant or whatever so let her get on with it.to answer the question, i don't think you had an orgasm, judging by all the answers there are on here :) but tbh, i can't wait for any of that stuff.so i was just defending the girl!i respect her, in a way, to have the confidence, because even though i wouldn't like anything more than to do that sort of stuff, i don't have the confidence she does!:)xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2009): not bein funny but all you people sayin she's to young blahh i bet about 90% of you sayin it was at it yourself at the same age so just stfu and let her get on with it? :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2009): Hi you just got turned on by your boyfriend, i did too and no one can get an orgasm in just 2 seconds it takes minutes and maybe hours but it does feel great when when you think you will get an orgasm i thought that too when i tried it out and if you want to try and have an orgasm practice masturbating before you let your boyfriend finger you when you do have an orgasm it feels like your in heaven i had that feeling
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2009): no, there is no way you could have had an orgasm because, he was only fingering you and to get an orgasm he would have had to stimulate the clit.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2009): I am seventeen almost eighteen and still a virgin I think you are way to young to even be thinking about this it's insane. I have never orgasmed but I have heard you do feel like you have to pee and really badly to.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2009): Ok I am 12 and my bf fingers me and licks me
If u want sex then be safe k
Orgasim : I feel flushed and warm my knees buckle and go numb
It is amazing
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2009): Oh my....when I was your age...I think I was still playing with barbie and not boys. Please wait...your only 13.
Don't try to grow up to fast.
Enjoy being a kid!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2009): to answer your question, no, you did not have an orgasm. He was only fingering you, and it takes a lot to build up an orgasm.
but another thing is...
you are only thirteen and you're already starting to think about having sex? I really think you should wait, because your first time is supposed to be unforgettable, not just some one time thing with a boyfriend that you think you're in 'love' with. So do the right thing, and wait. Unless you want to face the consequences, go right ahead.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2009): oh that wasn't an orgasim honey. Trust me you will get all locked up at the knees and think you can't breath but trust me its the most amazing thing ever.
i don't mean to be hypocritical but being thirteen and already having sex isn't a wise move, i was 16 when i had sex, i mean i had been fingered before but not sex so just be safe..
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2009): I can tell you that u didnt experience an orgasm. My first orgasm was whe i was 18 years old, and now im 20. My boyfriend ate my pussy, and My legs locked up and i left like i was sweating and I started raising up, my legs got all crampy... but it was the best feeling ever, so now i cant live without it..lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2009): First, it's virtually impossible to have a orgasm in two seconds, and takes much longer to have an orgasm vaginally then clitorally.
What you experienced was not an orgasm. You got turned on, but that's all. If it was an orgasm you'd definitely know it. I recommend masturbating to see what you like and how far you get with that.
Like an orgasm is so intense your mind just...explodes and you feel like crying it's so good. That's what an orgasm feels like.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2009): ok, everyone needs to calm down. she isnt having sex, she was getting fingered. Its not that big of a deal.But back you your question, no i do not think it was an orgasm. He probably just hit something called the "G-spot" but keep going and you will.I do not think getting fingered is a bad thing. And if you do have sex, just be smart and be aware of what could happen.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2009): First of all, I can't believe you are only 13 and have lost your virginity. This is a serious problem because younger teens are not emotionaly ready to have sex yet. Just think, what if your bf dumped you right now? What would you do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2009): i have had that same feeling when my boyfriend fingered me. but i dont think it is an orgasm...im not sure.
i have a few things to say to every one who says that 13 or any other age is too young to be doing such things. firstly i think that there is no right age to start being "sexually active". it all depends on the person. some people dont do anything until they are much older and thats okay. it all depends on the person. secondly i know that typically you dont fall in love until ur older and can actually have a relationship... but sometimes you really do fall in love when your young. and if that happens then sometimes u want to do things with that special someone and thats okay. its not wrong to want or like sexuall activities. basically its all a matter of opinion.
thanks for listening.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2009): sorry hun that wasn't an orgasm. He just found what most people call a "G spot" and becuz its very senstive and right behind where you pee from, it makes yu feel like your going to go at any moment
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2009): hun your too young i had sex at 17 and i thought i am to young still
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reader, MissEmily +, writes (23 March 2009):
 I know you probably won't read this, but I just gotta say...
Seriously think now, your 13, is this the sorta thing you wanna be doing ? Just think about it, please.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2009): if the age of sexual consent is 16, you are definitely going against the law here. you are a child, learn to embrace these years of childhood. you will never get back the feeling of being one. sex complicates things, and later on in life there will be plenty of opportunity to experiment and even tons more pressure to be sexually active. dont succumb to pressure when you are still practically teething. i would like to remind you that about 2 years ago, you probably didnt even have breasts. you are a kid. no thirteen year old understands sex or what they are doing, no twenty year old does either, but they are mentally mature enough to handle their emotions and the consequences. here is my take on this: have sex when you are old enough to put your life back together if it falls into pieces. in no way are you able to do that. you are not even in high school yet, not even in college. you still have to be driven around--you cant even drive yet! most states dont even recognize you exist independent of your parents! the law still mandates you sty in school! you are a complete dependent on your parents for everything from food to whether or not mommy signs your report card. you probably have to ask to buy clothes. you have no idea how much you are going to grow up in the coming years. trust me, i just turned 20. life is a lot different when you get older. wait it out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2009): For one, you should not be going there with anyone at your age. If you must, please wear a condom.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2009): no sorry that wasnt an orgasm
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2009): ummm i am 14 and my boyfriend is 15 and i think thats how it feels cuz he was doing the same thing to me and then i felt like i had to pee put then wen he took it out i didnt so yea i think so weird huh
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2009): I justt really wanted to thank you because i really wanted to know the answer to this question but was too embaressed to ask anyone. but now I am going to go ahead with my boyfriend and reach an orgasm.thanks to al of you
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2009): i was 12 and my bf and i were fingering and then he had me practically screamming it felt soo good yeah it was an orgasm but no one is saying im too young soo what im 15 now and we are still together and yeah the other day he wanted me to do it and i said no so then he said what about the thing after fingering then he went to oral (; it was the same feeling and u should live ur life and old ppl should mind their own buisness. (; yes u had an orgasm
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2009): you are way too young for this type of thing. tell that boy to get away from you live your life, enjoy being young and worry about all of that other stuff later. believe me
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2009): Okay, well, I might be late in giving you an answer, but I really think you deserve one. Tonight was the first night I ever tried masturbating, I kid you not. I'm fourteen years old, and I have never even come close to anything like that with a boy because I want to save myself, I guess... Anyway, to give you some answers, since these people don't seem to be able to give good ones, yes, I think you did climax, or were about to. All day today I did tons of research into this stuff. I mean, this was the first time I really thought to explore my vaginal area. Anyway, I found out a bunch, especially on climaxes. Yeah, it usually kind of feels like you have to pee sort of, but different, and your body starts to move uncontrollably, and you might feel explosions all over your body, but it feels good, and you might make whimpering noises and your breathing will change. And when you're done, you feel so relaxed, and are sad it's over... At least that's how it was for me. So, you're perfectly normal if I am (:
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2009): just cuz your horny and feel like youve gotta piss doesnt mean you had an orgasm or got close..
im 15 and just had my first orgasm a few weeks ago..
im still a virgin and get fingered alot and if hes doing it really hard and fast and you really get into it for a while you prolly will get one. and dont stop just cuz it feels like you gotta piss.
an orgasm makes your whole body tingle and maybe go numb and you cant stop moaning and screaming and you keep moving your body all over the place.
so youll know when you do ha. it just feels like something youve never felt before. like the greatest thing ever. seriously haha.
and 13 isnt too young. i didnt do that shit when i was 13 cuz i was ugly haha. but then i got pretty like a year later and started doing that stuff with other people.. not myself haha. so just dont have sex till your in love cuz you dont wanna waste your first time with someone that your not gonna remember that well.
but keep getting fingered! its great! ha. and do all the other stuff too. its all great!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2009): Im really late, XD anywaysyou're lucky there ;) you were about to squirt.Squirting is the most pleasureable orgasm a girl can get.The body ejaculates a waterish liquid.Don't be embarassed when u accidentally Pee, this is normal when it happens the first time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2009): sometimes it could feel like you might pee.. if you ignore that feeling, then you may have a possible female ejaculation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2009): personally , i think 13 is way to young to be doing this type of stuff
your body is still growing and you can harm it badly
but to answer your question , you do not feel like you have to pee ,
if you felt like you had to pee , maybe you actually did .
an orgasm is when you feel tingling through your entire body , not just your vagina
you make facial expressions without wanting to
and you breathe faster,
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2009): Hey :) well about 2 hours ago my boyfriend gave me a good orgasm,, now what it is is basically you get a really big headspin but its like a 30 second feeling,, best feeling you;ll ever have,, you get a rush right down to your toes :) hope that helped
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2009): well i lose control of my body i completely feel aroused and scream but not in pain in pleasure its like my feet clench up and i kinda scrunch up into a ball if ya know what i meen lol well omg this sounds well perverted lmao oh god well its like tingling all around me vibrators make most ppl go wirld if you and you bf wanna have pleasure maybe buy a vibrator or somin like that and he watch you so he may become aroused to so it not just one of ya try touching eachother and encourage him not to do stuff over the top but simple but good things like "like oh my god" or i know you hear this in movies but "yes yes" or "that feels so good" lmao omg this sounds so weird lools xxx
luv
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and luv eachother blud like eachother would i meen like respect eachother cuddling works try dat, dat should work to and kissing if your a giggly gurl giggle that most of the time works be the gurl you are dont change yourself but always make some kind effort guys like dat so there ya go have a good relationship and fingering at 13 aint to young but dont have sex till ya 16 plzplzplz
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2009): Dear, I know this post is MAD old, but I need to give my opinion. I'm 14, and I'm a virgin. Honestly, you're too young. I've thought about losing my virginity with one of my friends just to get it over with, but I realized that doing that is wrong. I feel like you should just continue being a teenager. I've talked to older people like some seniors in my school and they've told me repeatedly to wait. They said that if you wait, it will be so much more pleasurable. Honestly, I'm fine with fingering. Finger away, just don't do everything just yet.
Take a lesson from the Twilight Series, waiting is so much more better than giving in.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2008): hey, this is going to sound rediculous but you no you said you feel like you need to pee when he fingered you... well i actually have before but it felt good! dnt make him stop because of it.. you may just need to squirt, loads of girls do it. but when that happens to me thats only by penitration and it isnt because i am having an orgasm it is just because it feels good. I can only orgasm through cliterol stimulation. I think that you will defonatly no when you have an orgasm because i personally think it feels amazing like the earth is shaking! Everyone is different though! i hope this has helped!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2008): There is no wrong question to ask, and I commend you for being able to feel comfortable enough about yourself and your sexuality to come forward and ask. So many girls go so long without really knowing or getting advice about what they are doing.
However, I think it's important that you should know, that the feeling for everyone is different. Some would say you didn't, others would say you did, and some may even say that you were close. Just keep in mind that they are telling you what they know from their own experience, which could be completely different for you as your own individual.
So, I'll start by saying, what I'm about to tell you is based on my personal experience and by no means am I telling you that it's the right or wrong way to feel about that kind of stuff.
Personally, I have never had an orgasm from being "finger banged," I have felt highly pleasured and have been completely aroused by it, but I have not reached climax without clitoral stimulation. As odd as this may sound, the first time I pleasured myself when i was maybe about your age ill always remember the sensation of feeling like I had to maybe pee a little, however, as i continued, the feeling of needing to pee turned into a muscle tensing convulsions up and down my body.
In my opinion, don't stop just because you feel like you had to pee, keep going if it feels good, and once you reach the point that its sensitive to touch, that could mean you had an orgasm, but the first time is always confusing and until you can decide for yourself what feels good and what does not, you will not be able to fully understand the feeling of an orgasm.
When i first started having guys pleasure me orally, mind you I was much older than you are at that point, I wasn't able to have an orgasm, but it was also because i wasn't really comfortable enough to loose myself in the moment. So, keep a clear mind or fantasize if you have to, you'll get there, and you'll know it.
If an orgasm is what you are really looking to experience, you have to find out on your own, there's really nothing anyone out there can tell you about it or how its supposed to feel other than you and your own experiences.
But by god, it's a truly amazing feeling.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2008): WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU DOING BEING SEXUALLY ACTIVE AT 13????????
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2008): im 15 y/o and still never had one because i prefer girls over guys and i play the male role but i have given my girlfriend of 4 months a couple of orgasms and she said that it felt like she had to pee but she didnt pee i kept goin and gave her , her 1st orgasm so dont make him stop b/c of that feeling it will be well worth it
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reader, .cheeky.  +, writes (8 December 2008):
heyy chikky.dont listen to any of the people who tell you your too young! its not about your age its about your maturity and making your own decisions!taking it from experience, at the age of 13 i had done everything! fingered, hand, head, licking out and sex. its all great. i love it!and also i barely ever use a condom, he always pulls out just before he comes. but im 15 now and im on the pill so that doesnt matter anymore.have fun with sexual stuff! you wont regret it!xx
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reader, wasdf555 +, writes (6 November 2008):
well i was just masturbating and it does feel like you have to pee but thats just me and im only 13 so....... oh yea and your faces feels all rosy
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2008): Um this was kind of irritating i dont want to judge you because i was sexually active at your age too but that is a little bit young when you get older you'll think about that, but an orgasm makes you tingle its simply amazing, your toes curl i mean theres a lot of different ways girls orgasm not just one. And of course you will be horny when he fingers you obviously that's why he fingered you in the first place, and you normally are before it happens.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2008): I gotta say I don't really think I've had an orgasm before...but from what i hear it is amazing and I cannot wait to have one. But honestly I'm 15 and I've been with a guy who is three years older than me for Three years and we still haven't had sex. And still I love him so much and we both agree to wait because it will be so much better. And I'm not saying to have sex or not but i mean 13 is just a little to young. And I recommend you wait til your older and find someone you are sure you care about cause it will be so worth it in the end.
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reader, sexy sally +, writes (23 September 2008):
im 18 and when i was 16 i frist made my self orgams and it felt amazing like i was on a differnt land or sumthing yea i felt like i need to pee but i new i wasnt and my legs would twich and i would feel on clound 9 and i wanted to scream out ! but now i ave an amazing bf and he turns me on jst as much as i do so if we fail i always have me !!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2008): you are 13, if you want to have sex or let your boyfriend finger you, it's fine, im 23 and you will know when you have an orgasm, i've had them since i was probably 10, maybe younger, you hold your breath, your crotch squeezes by itself mind you, and then it releases after a few seconds, welcome
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2008): Give the poor girl a break. She didn't say they had sex, but only that he fingered her. They are only masturbating together, and there is nothing wrong with it. Now, to answer her question, as a boy I can say that, an orgasm does feel like you have to pee. This is how it has always felt like to me. I know many boys describe an orgasm as feeling like needing to pee.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (18 August 2008):
 Um, guys, read the original date on this post. June 2007. Over a year ago. So calm down everyone and try to stay rational, okay?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2008): can you all just shut the frik up already?!??! SHE HASN'T HAD SEX BEFORE. so before you go judging before you actually know what the hell is going on you should take the stick out of yourselves. Godddddd
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2008): listen you are not to yong to do it by yore self but youre boyfriend doing it to u is ilegal and you will know when u get it it is the most pleseurably feeling in the world im not joking
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2008): just be careful you're not being pressured into anything. it may feel good, but it will only feel right and amazing when you're ready. a 15 yo boy is very good at persuading you into thinking YOU are ready, when you don't really know if you are or not. just be true to yourself. I think your age rings alarm bells, because there's a presumption that if you don't know what you're doing or what to expect then maybe you're not ready to be doing it. But i'm in my mid-20's and i'm still clueless.. what matters is that you've got a caring partner, who you can discover things like this with, at your own pace. Not at their pace, with them not caring what you're going through. so if it's all about him- then don't do it. respect yourself more, and your time will come, when you're ready! and it will be much much better. good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2008): ok so everyone who nis saying she is too young or if her boyfriend actually cared he would wait? what the fuck!! i mean come on she just wants some fucking advise not to be bitched at or lectured to! she is whady to do waht she wants when ever she wants it doesnt matter HOW old youare!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2008): I'm sorry I don't have an answer to your question, and sorry this is really long but i put a lot of thought into it. well actually, now I do have an answer but it's at the end. BUT PLEASE READ THE OTHER STUFF! I am 14 (A wise 14(and proudly a virgin)), and I do have some advice. You may feel like you're ready for something like this when you're not. Having a boyfriend to care for is great and it's part of growing up, but chances are he won't be the guy you want to spend the rest of your life with and breaking up will just be harder after all the "wonderful" times you shared together. Besides, there are plenty of other, more meaningful ways to express your compassion. Personally I don't think people should do these types of things until they are ready to get married. That way it will be with hopefully "the one," it will be guilt free (you won't have to sneak around), and having a baby would be just fine. Plus, I'm sure sex and stuff would just make things more complicated for you and him, when really, your biggest worry should be the test next week or something. Take it from someone who cares about your situation.
P.S. I actually think i've had several orgasms. But not w/a guy or anything, just completly on accident by myself. I was only about 7 or 8, and i was climbing a rope, (the kind with knots in it) and struggling, and i came to the next knot and kinda sat on it and must have hit the g-spot or whatever. i didn't know what it was, it just felt good so i tried it other times and in different ways and i recall twitching and the muscle contractions. I dont think you had one but you were close i guess.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2008): ok yes you probalay had an orgasm cause me and my boyfired where having sex not to long ago and he was fingering me and it feels so good doesnt it and you can cum when you orgasm and yes it does feel like you are going to pee so just let it out make sure you are very careful cause it can stain anything and enjoy all the sex with him cause honey sex is wonderful
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2008): im 13 and i lost my virginity about 6 months ago and recently my boyfriend has been fingering me ALOT !!! its hard to describe what an orgasm feels like its kind of like your hearts starts to beat faster and u will feel an amazing feeling then you will start to twitch abit ,x hope that helps & please use a rubber iif your gonna have sex it will ruin your life getting pregnant at 13 - peace out dude =] xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2008): I don't know y everyone keeps saying your going to have sex or think your going to have sex case no where in your question did it say u were having sex or thinking about it.. just because u are being fingered by a guy doesn't mean your going to bang him and get pregnet... people read into these things way to much!!!... u are a lil young but it doesn't seem like your actually looking for advice because it looks like u have already made up your mind about it...i know what u mean bout feeling like u have to piss when your bf fingers u cause i get that feeling too... I have always made him stop when i get that feeling but i think thats y i have never orgasmed with him before... so maybe next time just keep going...(I don't mean sex i just mean let keep fingering u to get the orgasm)... trust me you'll know when u get it... hope this helps:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2008): SERIOUSLY!!!!! You're WAY too young...this is such an important decision cos for girls it's so much more personal than for men...trust me!!! Live your life...as a child...you're growing up way too fast...I'm 20..and was so happy I waited...trust me...you don't want a name growing up...or a baby.....at 13!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2008): first of all your 13 you should not be finger xxx anybody and that boyfriend of your is just playing you honey if he really cared about you he would wait till your old enough to be having sex first it fingering your then its penertrating you and next thing you no your pregnate your moma done kicked you out of her house or dad your broke living on the streets dropping out of school and to top it all of your boyfriend done left you and moves away all because you let him finger xxx you and trust me on this i would know see the playa change but the game stays the same
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2008): yeah. i get it too. im 13 as well, but i was reading another answer to the same question and the lady said its fine, its just that his finger might be putting pressure against your bladder which would make u feel like u need the toilet... (: happy fingering x
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2008): its like the most amazing thing ever. its impossible to describe how it feels. if you have to question weather you had one or not. then most likely you didnt have an orgasm. you will know when you have one.
but i do agree with the older people who said you should wait. wait for someone you really and you know there the one. im only 15. & i had sex for the first time when i was about to turn 12. it was a mistake. i wish i wouldnt have done it. ive had sex many many times since then. & only one did i truly love. & it is so much more amazing when your with someone you truly love. the sex is better. (:
you dnt have to listen to me. i didnt listen to any of my friends. & im sorry i didnt. its one of the only regrets i have.
peace. (:
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2008): im only 14 years old and i lost my virginity at age 11...its not that big of a deal as long as you are mature...i lost my virginity to a 20 year old who had a big cock...but he used a condom so i felt safe...now me n him have had sex over 15 times...its ok...if you want sex then go get it....its a wonderful experience and just remember this...lose your virginity to a big cock!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2008): Man, I read some of these answers and none of them seem helpful at all...an orgasm feels like all the muscles in your vagina contracting. The feeling like you have to pee probably means you were almost there.
Just one thing, sex is not worth it at 13. Wait a few years until you are emotionally ready and it will be much better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2008): A lot of women have never had an orgasm or think they have because of myths like these. You've probably realized by now that women have trouble describing an orgasm. However its true that once you have an orgasm, you will know you've had one. If you are asking yourself "Did I just have an orgasm?" then you have NOT.
If you feel the need to pee, it is likely because your g-spot has been touched or stimulated in some way. The female g-spot is comparable to the male prostrate gland, and sometimes stimulation of the g-spot will lead to female ejaculation, which can be accompanied by a feeling of pleasure.
What you really want is a clitoral orgasm. The way that I find works best is when the female is on top, and the man lying on his back. The female should face the man, and press her clitoris onto his pelvis bone area in a circle or front to back motion. Don't worry about being too rough, often the harder you press into your man and the faster you go, the sooner you will reach an orgasm.
(This is written for women who are mature and in relationship."
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2008): Wow. This makes me feel sick. I had just had my first period at 13. I didn't even THINK about having sex at that age. I was still into toys, and fun stuff about being a kid. I am 21 now, and to be honest, I am glad I didnt have sex at 13. This is sickening. 13 year olds know nothing about sex. No wonder kids are getting pregnant. The world truely has gone to Hell. Grow up some before you start ruining your life with something meant for adults. Seriously.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2008): Hey hun at 13 you should be enjoying your life and being with friends. I don't believe that there is anything wrong with dating and having a boyfriend but you have so much life ahead of you to be sexual. You don't want to end up having any problems life is too short and too precious. When I was 14 I met a boy who I fell in love with and I understand hormones are raging but it's worth the wait. My bf and I were together for 3 years before we finally had sex and that is because i knew he was my one and only. I know it's not my place to tell you what to do I just feel like kids today don't have a childhood anymore...they are too busy trying to be grown up and I know everyone says when your older you will wish you can go back but it is soo true. I am 19 now and i realize I too am still young and my bf and i are now together for 5 years and I am glad we waited so long to do it because it made it that much more special. Live your life as a kid while you still can....there is so much time to have sex. I am sorry to those who do not agree that she is too young but she really is. Sex is complicated and feelings evolve that you will not be ready for...
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reader, Tamara12 +, writes (27 June 2008):
Don't listen to all those old people who say we shouldn't experience orgasm at any age. When I had my first orgasm (self made) at 13 it was like I found heaven on earth. The slow build up in my genitals, usually a warm feeling, quickly spread through my anus and abdomen and then my whole body. It is an incredible feeling that lasts from about 10 seconds to a minute or more. All ages should have this feeling whenever they want, however often they want. Whats wrong with that? And by the way, once someone has had an orgasm, there is nothing anyone can say to stop us from having more. It just feels too good!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2008): One thing i feel is like a warmth in your genitals.
It almost feels like its burning but a good kind of burning.
But i think there is such a thing as little orgasms and the BIG O.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2008): I lost my virginity at 13 aswell. Honestly, it's all about maturity. Just use a rubber! I couldn't stress this enough. All it take is one littlemistake.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2008): Hi,
im 14 and me and my boyfriend of 6 months recently had sex for the first time, after about 10 seconds i got an exploding feelling like i was gunna pee, so yes it does well maybe for some people. be careful though, me and my boyfriend talked about having sex for about a month before and we went to a clinic at my school to get free condoms.
be safe and have fun, its amazing!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2008): well I think when u feel you r ready to have sex you'll no if u feel like u could let your self go to your b/f your ready. So good luck! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2008): i lost my virginity at 13 to the same boy i married eleven years later. Dont let anyone tell you that you're too young. Sex is something that can be done for the right or the wrong reasons. When i decided to have sex with my boyfriend i made sure that he was the one that i wanted to give it up to. that he was special. for all you people here telling this girl she's stupid, dont be pissed off because you didnt find someone tht special at such a young age. count yourself lucky and dont listen to these judgemental idiots. as long as your safe about it and you know in your heart that your both doing this for the right reasons, there is NOTHING wrong with it. Age is only a number. MATURITY is what matters. As for an orgasm, it feels so good your mind goes blank, so if it feels like peeing it wasnt an orgasm because you still remember it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2008): Hi hun!
Im 15 and I have gotten that feeling you know that afterwards you feel like peeing...im almost sure that its not an orgasm becouse orgasms your muscles contract and it's like you want more!! but its really your body acting for you and your just in soo much pleasure you cant event think straight...and im soo sorry you have to read all those other comments...people citisising you and all that stuff...gosh like they wher never our age...its easy to say things but when your in the situation its very hard for us to control ourselfs and our hormones!! dont mind any of those comment hun but make sure that if you are going to do something take care of yourself and do everything with responsability =] becouse your decisions now will affect your life later on okay, i know you know this allready but we are teens and women and we gotta watch each other's back =]
HUGS SWEETY
take care
laury
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reader, Bella_Babe57 +, writes (12 June 2008):
 Sometimes you do need to feel like you need to pee.
If you experienced an orgasm, you would know for sure.
Its like overwhelming pleasure, exploding. Lasts a few seconds...Congrats!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2008): I think this is crazy. You are 13!! My niece is 14 and her baby is due in november. Do you want that?! Kids your age have no idea.I am 28, I do remember being 13.you might not believe it,but you honestly don't know what you want,which is why your parents still make all your decisions. Sex, is not a bad thing but for your age group it is. There is no cure for AIDS, remember that always.people of all ages should. And babies are lots of work-just ask your mom.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2008): hi, everyone on this page is being far too judgemental of you. they are taking the liberty of commenting on your personal life just because you are young. you asked a simple question, and you should get a simple answer. there is a double standard for men and women in terms of how acceptable it is to express your sexuality, and have sex and enjoy it, and these people posting here are adding to it. you should trust your instincts and do what feels right for you. there is not one right time that is good for everyone to start playing around. it's not bad advice to take it slow, but for some people waiting for mr or mrs "right" is just not top priority, and that's fine. i think it's totally normal for someone at 13 to be curious about sex and experimenting sexually, so just don't listen to everything you hear and be your own person. also, there are a lot of sexual activities that don't involve penetrative sex, and it sounds like you're having fun exploring that. this will give you lots of time to discover what you like and don't like.
as for an orgasm, here's what happens: stimulation of your clitoris, either indirectly through rubbing the vulva, or directly throught the hood of the clitoris, or on the clitoris itself (gently and with lube - saliva or other), is necessary in order to reach orgasm. the clitoris is actually a wishbown-shape, and only the tip is visible, the rest sits around the entrance to your vagina, and underneath yoru vaginal lips. before orgasm, your breathing will speed up, and so will your heart rate. more blood will be circulating in your genital area, creating a feeling of warmth that is pleasurable. at orgasm, your muscles in your genital area, around your anus and vagina, will contract 4 to 15 times approximately, and other muscles in your body will likely contract too. this is because your muscles have reached a threshold and are now allowing the blood to rush back into your body. this, along with the release of endorphins and oxytocin from your brain are what create the wave of pleasure that is an orgasm.
-tal in calgary
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2008): Like many here have said, what you experienced wasn't an orgasm. You just probably hit the g-spot. When you get an orgasm you just know it. And let me tell you, it feels great. From what I have felt, I felt my body shaking and after the intercourse, I could barely stand up (my legs were feeling weak). The feeling is sensational and although it may only last a short time (about 10 seconds) it feels like forever. You might have the feeling to pee, but that's not always the case.One thing that concerned me, though, is your age. I won't call you stupid, but I just wish you could appreciate more your childhood. I'm 20 years old and I wish I was 13 again. Having a childhood is wonderful, let me tell you, since there's barely any worries I can take. Trying to reach adulthood like you are trying here is the worst thing you can do! Try to live up to your age. Also, another thing is waiting for the right person. I lost my virginity when I was 18, and it was a great decision; the reasons because I was more concious about my actions and I had waited for the right person. Also, when you get into high school you'll have a terrible reputation if you ever say you had intimate relationships with a guy at 13 (And mark my words at this) If you decide to go all the way, though, just don't spread the word. Sweety, don't rush things with your boyfriend. You two are still kids and like I said, live your childhood!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2008): Alright so I am 18 and I have had sex before but let me tell you if you are only 13 its NOT worth it. Trust me I went through all my friends at school and classmates finding out and the guys just wanting to talk to me so they could "hit it" You dont want to go threw high school looking like a easy whore. I think you are too young and should really wait for someone who loves and appreciates you for you. Sex is a very great thing and feels wonderful but for your age, do you even know what to do? Think about it before you actually do it. But to answer that question it wasn't an orgasm. When you have one you will just know. My whole body shakes and I get tingly feelings in my vagina and legs. It's great But if you do choose to have sex be safe and talk to your mom about birth control. Hope this helps
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2008): silly girl
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2008): listen im am 53 years old and never in my life i have experience a lot of little brats talking about oragism. you are just too young for this. please think things clear.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2008): Heyy Darliing im 13 and i think your just to young to be doing stuff like that and even if your parents do think your ready dont do it because your parents or your boyfreind wants you to.. please if your gonna have sex use a condom babe :)
Much Love ..x
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2008): To help induce orgasm, tense your abdominal muscles when you feel your highly stimulated- always works for me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2008): So alot of people have been telling you the wrong thing so far. You did nto have an orgasm. Feeling like you have to pee just means you're really turned on and being pleasured, but haven't hit orgasm. An orgasm feels like this: All of your muscles get tense and then just let go and it is the most incredible thing you'll ever feel. It's almost like a sneeze, but incredibly pleasureable. When you have an orgasm, you'll know it- you won't have to ask.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2008): Hi, I lost my virginity at the age of 14. I was wayy to young. Me and my boyfriend had been together for 8 months, and I thought I was ready. But boy was I wrong. That one time turned into him wanting it all the time, and I wasn't down with that. He kept getting really mad at me, and finally I just had to end it. So, be careful what you get into. I thought I was 'in love' but I wasn't. Your first time should be with someone special. Use a condom though if you're going to. It's your decision, but personally I think its too young.
However, I do have a boyfriend now. I'm 16 and he is almost 18. We got together a month after me adn the other guy broke up.. we've now been together for almost 2 years.
He is amazinag in bed. I've gotten an orgasm when we have sex, when he fingers me, when he eats me out. You name it, he does it. An orgasm is the most amazing feeling. I love it, however I wish it lasted longer. But to answer your question, I don't think you had an orgasm.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2008): That definitely sounds like you're just having your gspot hit. An orgasm is much more intense. I'm really difficult to get off but when it's done right, my left leg gets shooting hot tingles, my lower body tenses, the area just under my clit gets really hot and there is about 5 seconds of intense pleasure and then it slows and I relax. This is always through clitoral stimulation as penetration doesn't do much for me.As for the age issue, I think you should really be careful about losing your virginity. When I lost my virginity I was 14 and it was to a boy I dated for 8 months. We rushed into it and neither of us were ready and so the end result was bad bad dry sex that didn't break my hymen. Technically I was still a virgin when I met my current boyfriend whom I have been dating for 3 years. Our first time was fantastic and I'm glad I waited 6 months before we went for it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2008): erm but i get this feeling and i don't like it i have only had it about 7 times with my partner im 16 and wen it getsfast i tell him2 stop i dont enjoy the need 2 pee feeling! do you think because im fairly new to it it will get better the last time fewlt diferent to the others maybe im just sorefrom the first times?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2008): What you felt i do not think was an orgasm... I think this was just a simple cum. When I first lost my virginity it was very unpleasurable however after the 3rd or 4th time it became quite enjoyable however it took a longer length of time to get an orgasm. When i did get my 1st orgasm I began to breathe really heavily I didn't even realise this as I was enjoying the feeling so much I at that time felt happy and there was a feeling going through my hole body like no other feeling. It was AMAZING!!! i do not think you had an orgasm and I certainly do not think you should rush into sex. Your virginity is precious and you can only loose it for the 1st time once. I waited till I was 18 and am very happy with doing so. Enjoy the feeling of being fingered, kissing and feeling each other but please do not loose your virginity. However if you happen to do so use a condom because you certainly do not want a child at a young age. i would also strongly recomend a nice place as you do not want to be one of those people saying you were "broke in" in an alley way or somewhere like that do it in a bed its much nicer and far more romantic. xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2008): funny you should ask this question because i just recently had my first orgasm. and it didn't invole a guy at all. i learned to explore my own body before someone esle did. I think that maybe you should too. then you will know for sure what an orgasm feels like. btw I am 17 years old
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2008): Hi Im 13 and a virgin and Have Wanted To HAve Sex For About 2 Months And My Bf Doesnt want To Rush Things Butt Hee Fingers Me And I Love Itt So Much. I Am Ready To have sex but i dont think he wants to. People think im too young but its not up to them its up to me and my parents well i havent told them how i feel my bf is a year older than me but i dont care. People should just but out and mind their own buisness as long as we use protection.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2008): you did not have an orgasm...he was hitting you're g spot...when you touch it over and over again itll feel like u have to go pee
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2008): i lost my virginity last year. i was 14 and it was one of my best experiences ever. im almost 15 now and iv had sex about 7 more times.it jst gets better and better every time.if u and ur partner feel u r ready to do it, then go for it.forget about underage sex!!!.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2008): well, sometimes my legs begin to shake and i get cramps it the top of my tights right below my ass.
hehe. its fun.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2008): Girl, there's a reason why everyone is saying that you're too young - it's because you are. As previously mentioned, this will eventually lead to sex, and you don't want to make any mistakes that you can't undo. Take your time with something so sentimental and personal as this, you still have quite a few years to go. I had sex when a couple years after i turned 17 years old with my boyfriend who was 18, turning 19. Even at that age, I think it's way too early, I can't take back what I did though. Just think more logically rather than letting your hormones make the decisions. It's so easy to give in.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2008): When you have an orgasm, does it feel like you're going to pee? like I mean when I'm with my guy, it feels like im going to pee and even when he's doing oral stuff on me.. i feel like im going to pee, is that normal?im afraid I will so I always stop him, so i've never had one before.. will I go pee? im so confused and upset.. HELP
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2008): ignore people that say you are too young. i think if your ready for it and get parents consent Why not? im 14 and my mum feels the exact same way and if you are ready ignore what other people say!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2008): Do you realize that not only are you too young to be doing things like that, it's ILLEGAL!!! You are not having sex, you are being molested. You have too many adult years ahead of you, just be a girl right now. Do you want to end up having a baby before you can even take care of yourself? And where is your mother? Why aren't you asking her for advice? Is it because you KNOW what you're doing is wrong?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2008): you are too young to be having sex hun. I don't think you're ready to have a baby are you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2008): your WAYYY To young to be having sex!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2008): I am 60 years old and had no man for 26 years. I met a friend 2 years ago and not even once could he satisfy me. Is it because I am to small after all these years? And it hurt, the last time we had sex was 1 year ago.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2008): im 13 (virgin), i think you're too young to have sex, i mean honestly????Why do you even want to?
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reader, daletom +, writes (24 December 2007):
Well, I am NOT a girl but the overwhelming consensus (like, 95% of people - maybe even 98% or 99%) is this: If you have to ask whether it was an orgasm, it probably wasn't.
Some studies I've come across say that people have quite a range of ways they experience orgasm. Surprisingly (to me, at least) it seems to feel about the same to men and women. The almost universal sequence is tensing up, awareness of sensations concentrated in the genital/lower abdomen (women often describe this as the "gotta pee" feeling), the "explosion", then the feeling of contentment. There will be internal muscle contractions though a few people don't feel them strongly enough to recognize them. There may also be twitching, squirming, shaking, etc throughout the body.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2007): I dont think you did I have had my bf do it to my and he said that i WAS screaming and arching my back and saying GIVE MORE GIVE MORE IT FELT LIKE NOTHING COULD EVER GO WRONG EVEN THOUGH HE SAID IT WAS ONLY 8 SECONDS IT FELT LIKE 3 YEARS.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2007): I believe you do need to heed the advice of others here and be careful, at least, about under-age sex. However, I can tell you that my wife is incredibly quick to orgasm, and what you describe seems to be one. I can hardly get into her before she goes off like a rocket, she goes into little spasms, sometimes screams with pleasure, her breasts get covered in goose-bumps and her veins stand out, and I can feel all the convulsions as she climaxes. In some ways I wish she were slower to get there, but I think you are either "hard-wired" that way or you are not. For instance, it takes me ages with mouth-sucking or hand wanking for me to shoot off, yet friends of mine shoot it in about a minute. My advice is for people to look around and find someone with whom your sexual response meets an equal, then stick with them!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2007): Both male and female when having an orgasm, feels like they are going to pee because of the muscles contraction. In fact after having an orgasm you wil lwant to pee 5 minutes later and you can compare the diference. Peeing actually feels good, many people just don't notice that.You said it was fast like 2 sec, you were extremely horny and you ask if you had an orgasm? fastest female orgasm I've heard anyway
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2007): i don't think 13 is too young. i'm 14 and my boyfriend and me have done everything legal. i reckon that life is short, and we should have fun while we can. (:
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2007): Personally i would kill you if you were my little sister doing these type of things!!You are too young 13!thats crazy thats why little kids your age are getting all types of diseases.All I can tell you is to be CAREFUL!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2007): I think that 13 is young as well.. HOWEVER, it is personal decision as to what age, how far one goes and it is important that no matter what age the person is completely informed on everything in order to make an informed descion on what they want to do or not do. I recomend the website sexualityandu.ca it is very good for young people to get help and understand all the facts.cheers.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2007): hi there, it sounds as if you were being stimulated on your "g-spot" which is another place you can experience an orgasm. With this stimulation some feel as though the have to urinate. All I can recommend is use the washroom before your next encounter and then relax even when you feel this sensation. Vaginal and g-spot orgasms are alot more rare to achieve orgasms in. Most people have orgasms from clitoral stimulation. As for if you had an orgasm-probably not because you would know (your muscles go crazy and you get a surge of relaxation), however you probably were really close which feels very realxing and nice as well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2007): @Ms. Anon below: you're assuming on a lot of things first of all. I made more mistakes when I got a little older - 19 to 22) than I did when I was a teenager, and a lot less when I got older, closer to 30. You're assuming that this kid doesn't know better, and through your words, it seems that you think better equals age. I can prove you wrong on many fronts if you believe that.
YES, it might not be proper (according to medical theory) that young women engaging in sexual activities can be harmful to their bodies and possibly to their emotional core, but I wouldn't say it's absolute. I know more virgins today with emotional problems than those whom have had some form of intimate and/or sexual experience. ^_-
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2007): Jeez....Why is everyone giving a 13 y/o sex adivce! And her boyfriend is 15. At those ages, a 2 year difference is HUGE! Haven't some of you guys messed up when you were younger, & learned? I'm only 21, & made many mistakes growing up. I wish I knew what I know today back then. Getting intimate with guys too young can be permantly emotionally scarring. The temptation is high, and society eggs on sexual relationships. At 13, middle school age, realtionships should be fun & cute. By 15, high school years, kids may pick up the pace more, but even then, they just shouldn't. My final thought,... Where on Earth are her parents when their 13 y/o is getting "finger-banged" by a 15 y/o??????
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2007): Yeah when you have an orgasm it feels like you have to pee. It definitely sounds like you did! Congratulations!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2007): I just had my first orgasm... i'm 22... gosh your just 13 sincerly i think its too early for you to be doing these things, i was still playing iwth barbies at 14! Don't forgt that your childhood is not that long and you have the rest of your life to be an adult.
anyways, when i had myorgasm i had the earge of peeing too; but i knew i wsnt going to... you know? then i felt hot and cold, ingly and very shivery! after all this when stopped my head was just spinning! it was amazing!!!!!! i almost felt drunk. but of course wasn't. i ve been with alo fo guys... nd this wa sthe ifrst guy to make me reach that level!
so for you ladies out there, i believe that not all men are able to do this. that's why we fake it!
this guy wasn't even my bf! he was actually my best guy friend! god, do i look at him diffrently now :op
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2007): This is a boy answering this from when I was fingering my girlfriend. When I was fingering her I asked if she was orgasming and she said she was- she was arching her back and sweating alot, and moaning. SHe said it felt so good and she was taking large breaths, so like some kind of relief.Hope this helps x
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reader, myp +, writes (23 June 2007):
 you feel like you have to pee when he hits your g-spot. As for an orgasm, when you have one youll know! there will be no doubt. When you have an orgasm it feels like theres a knot in your stomach that keeps getting tighter, and when the orgasm comes its like a cataclysmic release of pressure, your knees go weak and you feel all your muscles tense, some girls get spasms, and go into convulsions. Anyway like i said, youll know. If you think you mightve had one then you didnt because if you did you wouldnt need to ask.
best of luck
-Myesha
message me if you want to talk =)
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (23 June 2007):
 I suppose some females feel like they have to pee when they orgasm. Physically your body tenses up as you get close, especially your vaginal muscles and the relax as you release the orgasm. You should feel a sudden surge of pleasure.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2007): Hey! What you described does sound like an orgasm. Sometimes in an orgasm you do feel like you need to pee.
Just remember to be careful. Because your boyfriend is older than you, he may have different needs to you, and you do need to remember that you are under the age of consent for sex, and if you two were two have intercourse he would be committing a crime. Good luck in your relationship, and I hope you two are happy together :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2007): It is the most wonderful feeling of high (that is legal) you can have. Add up all your most pleasurable experiances and treple them
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reader, jtaunton5410 +, writes (23 June 2007):
 well sweetie, it does sort of feel like you need to pee when it is about to happen, but the only way to know for sure that you are having one is: you start shaking, your legs twitch and your muscles contract down there. Believe me, you will know when you have one and sooner or later your boyfriend will know the exact spots that you like and you and him will know where your G-spot is. good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2007): yeah it can feel like you really need a wee, and it feels really good. Like it's coming from your stomach makes me tense up then kinda explode.
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