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writes:Is it weird that I fancy transvestites?I am a 19yo female in a loving realtionship but I keep fantasising about trannies and have started masterbating watching this porn.. Is this normal or just weird?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2010): Not weird at all. If I go out as a guy, women might check me out now and again but they're not fighting each other off to beat my door down. If I go out as a tranny, I get hit on by billions and billons of girls, every time. And billions may be an understatement.
It might be because female clothes are much sexier (though, forgive my vanity, IMHO they don't look particularly good on guys who are too tall or muscular, you need to look fairly feminine in the first place).
Anyway, you're not alone. Go out and get yourslf an open-minded tranny boyfriend. Plenty of them are actually straight, though most are probably bi and quite a few are gay. It's all beautiful. And you can take him out shopping.
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reader, vanessa-tgirl  +, writes (24 March 2010):
Hey, if you're attracted to men who cross-dress that's great! As many as 7-10% of men cross-dress either frequently or some of the time, and almost always in private. Most are straight and wish they could find a girl who would be attracted to man who dresses female sometimes. You'll make some guy very happy if he's a cross-dresser!
Cross-dressers and transvestites (full time cross-dressers) fall under the "trans" umbrella, but aren't really full on "trannies." Transsexuals like me consider ourselves to be the other gender besides the one we were assigned at birth and usually at some point obtain the necessary procedures to transition completely.
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reader, Mushgirl +, writes (17 July 2008):
 I'm 17 and started finding trannies hot about a year ago. I told my boyfriend and he says he'll wear a skirt for me one day, I was chuffed to the max!
And you say you watch tranny porn?! Please send me a link! I can never find any! (I'm serious).
One awesome thing about liking trannies and being a straight girl, is that it's fairly rare. So there is often less competition. I have a very good friend who loves cross dressing and he says that a lot of straight transvestites would love to meet a girl who's just as into it as they are. So my advice is, go find yourself a tranny. I've met a fair few through my friend, and they are - more often than with a lot of people - very articulate, interesting and open-minded.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for all your answers, I really dont think this is a fantasy.. It might be but I'm pretty sure that I would love to be with a trans gendered male, I've still not told my bf about this, I dont know how he would take it and I think he might think I was sick :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2008): Hi, Im a 21 year old female, and recently have been finding trans-gender people attractive. Im not in a relationship, I have never thought I would find women attractive, and not sure I do.. I have always had a lot of attention off men, but not really been able to stay in a relationship with one. Then a month or so ago I met a guy in a gay bar who was goin thru the gender change, and wasnt able to stop thinking about him, id not felt like that before, we got together and it was amazing. To start with I was worried about what other people would think, but theres really no point, I remember the first night we met and he said to me "Im not gay, I just want to fall in love, be it with a man or women" and hes one of the most affectionate people i have ever met. Hes very unique which is what i think attracts me too him.
If it is just a fantasy for you thenfair enough, what could be wrong with it, but if there is more to it, dont be ashamed xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2008): I wish I had found some one who liked transvestites when I was younger and looking for a g/f .
There is no harm in what you like, enjoy yourself and a point to remember a tranny may be more empathetic with your feelings as a woman.
They can also help with the shopping and choosing clothes.
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (12 June 2008):
 Not weird, just different.
In fact, there are a number of trans-people that would love to meet you and be in relationships with you.
I did an interview with a trans-gendered person (Micheline Anne Montreiul) on my website www.fbkradio.com and you can listen to it for free. He was a man, is now a married trans-gendered person to a woman.
You can ask your boyfriend to fulfill your desires, however, if he is not open minded, he mind get a complex and start to wonder if there is something wrong with him. Try to introduce it slowly and see what he thinks of the topic. Perhaps a video of trans-person stand up comedy, etc...nothing sexual. Is there a gay pride parade in your area? A club for drag queen shows? A fetish event?
As long as you are not being unfaithful to your bf (assuming you promised him you would be faithful), feel free to explore.
-Frank B Kermit
www.fbkradio.com
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2008): Google pansexual
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reader, Midge +, writes (12 June 2008):
 Hey, I am a firm believer that so long as you are not hurting anyone, whatever rocks your boat hunnie!
If its trannies that does it for you, so be it. Some straight people like watching gay porn. Why, I couldnt tell you, but they do and they get off on it. Each of us is as different as the next, so if thats what does it for you, then so be it!
If on the other hand you started having a fling with a trannie somewhere, you would be hurting your boyfriend and that wouldnt be fair. But if its just a fantacy, then let it stay a fantacy. Each one of us has them!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyea i'm in a relationship with a guy lol but I see absolutely no chance in hell of him doing that!!
Thanks anyway
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reader, Uncle Sneaker +, writes (12 June 2008):
 Not particularly "weird". Just one of those things that some people like.
You say you are in a loving relationship? Presumably with a man? (Yeah, I know that's a big presumption, but you don't say otherwise). If men dressing in women's clothes turns you on, then why don't you see if he will play your fantasy with you? What you and he do in the privacy of your own bedroom is your own business, and there's absolutely no need to feel "weird" about it.
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