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writes: i think a man is like a emty vesel most of the time just waiting for a woman to fill him up. they pretend they are manly but mostly a mother brings up a son not a husband,so by the time we get them it seems like we gain a son rather than a partner.confident or shy i think down deep they are the same,,,what do you think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2006): And of course, I agree with Mr. Anon below. Eg: my brother and I are very different. I am sensitive to other people's moods, feelings, etc, and I try to understand those around me, etc, but my brother is quite cold towards most people in the family, and only look out for his friends.
Some guys that I know on a deeper level tend to need a female companion to complete their lives, where as some other males only desire a female companion to complement their lives. There is a spectrum of how much each male yearns for such things, which compromises of many small and large intertwining details. Sometimes, whatever moods come up, we may feel stronger towards needing an aspect of a relationship.
Last example, I don't see myself being with someone intimately, but I do want it, yet I feel that I don't need it. Am I content with the money I earn, the freedom I have, the obligations that chain me, and the problems that burden me? In some aspects I am, but deep down when I'm drinking Port with a friend or two, I may have some urges - sexual and/or just chilling out together and have a good time.
I feel so off-topic. 8/
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2006): Men are not all the same. There are billions of us on this planet. It's impossible to generalise that massive amount of people in one sentence or indeed a paragraph. This isnt a hostile reply but please for the women who think in a negative way about us just open your minds. There are too many of us to form a single opinion on the whole population. We all have diferent upbringings and experiences. Some of the women I have meet are so imcomplete they shouldnt even have left the factory so to speak. But I realise that that's only some of you. Women some of you have got to wake up.
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reader, anon2907  +, writes (8 October 2006):
 sleepysly,
You sound like a woman who's suffered/suffering from a bad experience.
I'm surprised your post didn't get some more responses, especially from the guys on this site. I was kinda disappointed by your generalisation, it seems so unfair.
Some men are as you describe, some are worse. Some men are truly amazing people. And the same applies to women. We can't all be great all the time - right?!
OK, so some parents don't teach their young adults much about relationships and responsibilites, but again this applies to both men and women, sons and daughters.
It takes only one guy to trigger this lack of faith and one more to restore it. Be open to these guys, one will amaze you and you'll wonder why you were ever so harsh.
Good luck,
Anon2907
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