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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2008): OK, I just noticed that this is a male asking this question. I think that we need some clarification from the OP.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2008): I see nothing wrong with a woman asking a guy out. Some men may feel that it offends their masculinity, but I don't think that most men think that way. After my divorce many years ago, 2 women asked me out. I wanted to date the one, but she worked at the same company that my current girlfriend worked at. The other one was a friend of my current girlfriend. I was flattered by both offers to date. Any guy who feels threatened by it is probably insecure. I was somewhat insecure at the time because of my first wife leaving me, but not that bad.
As to how to ask them out - the same way that a guy askes you out. That is what they did. The one acked me to go to a concert with her and the other asked me to go to a playoff hockey game with her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2008): I don't think a girl should ask a guy out. Not because I am old fashioned or anything (in fact, I'm super cosmo and very liberal), I am only saying that from experience and from what I know. I have seen women chase men before and it is not pretty.
Men don't like to be chased by women. It takes away from their masculinity. If you genuinely like him, I wouldn't ask him out. If you like a guy you should wait for him to ask you. If he likes you, he WILL ask you out.
On the other hand, if you are sure he likes you, and you are super confident and you are very composed and are planning to ask him out in a very nonchalant way, just as friends, perhaps in a group or something, and you genuinely are not expecting anything to come of it, then go for it.
But if you are asking him out cause you like him and are hoping something may come of it, then I think you are making a big mistake.
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