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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I went on a date with a guy quite some weeks ago, he picked me up and took me me out and then dropped me home. The whole date, he was quite nervous(tapping his foot) and it felt like we had known each other for a long time-I felt chemistry. We talked about everything, from food to family and he asked me about places I've been here(because I'm new to the city) and possible places to go in the future-he didn't say he would take me, but it was almost like an indirect invitation. He dropped me home that night and he asked me to text him the next day about what I was doing and before I even got in the door, he texted me saying thanks and that he enjoyed meeting me, I said the same and he said something else. I left it at that and we sort of stopped speaking, because I was hoping he would ask for another date. A few weeks on, nothing. So I texted him today and offered about catching up, he agreed to do so although I'm away at the moment and he told me to have a safe flight home with a kiss emoji and then he would come and see me when I'm back.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (9 June 2015):
 His intentions are to date you again but would not risk rejection so he's waiting for you to contact him. He didn't talk to you before because you didn't tell him what you were doing the day after the date. He assumed you weren't interested. Instead of asking for another date he was waiting for you to say either you were busy, not busy, want to go to x or y, then he would offer suggestions. He was rather passive and you read each other wrong. I think it could still go well if you talk to each other more directly.
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