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writes:need some advice! i've been seeing angie, exclusively for 8 months, she is on a rebound from a previous ex, last friday we were having some drinks on her porch. this man from the neighborhood showed up, we are both 40, this guy is 27. well she started digging this guy a lot. well to the point, he groped her in the kitchen, and making moves on her, guy finally leaves. i was pretty upset, we had a talk after that, she told me that i should have said something to him, and i asked her where was her boundaries, yes i agree i should have stepped in, we were pretty drunk, but i feel i'm passed that stage, then she goes on to tell me she was pretty intrigued by him, and assured me nothing would have happened between them, and apologizes for not making clear that we were exclusive, and that i should feel she is going to end up with me at the end of the night.She texed me that she was upset and we need it to talk. have not talked to her since the incident 5 days ago. is it over??? i feel like calling her, but i'm just waiting for her to call since that was her last text. i feel well i might avoided something that night but he lives in the neighborhood.
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reader, soulman +, writes (27 July 2010):
soulman is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all for your great advice! She broke it off!! I'm not surprised,the writing was all over the wall. Thks
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reader, Sweet-thing  +, writes (22 July 2010):
 If she texted you, saying you guys needs to talk, I think the ball is in your court so there's no sense in waiting for anything else to happen on her part. She's waiting for you to respond and discuss whatever is upsetting her. I don't think it's over, but communication needs to be established because you both have differing ideas about what's "exclusive" in this relationship. Call her back and set up a time to talk about what happened. You could give her a second chance, only after she understands where you feel the boundaries are and you can both agree on them. Then just keep your eyes open for awhile.
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (22 July 2010):
 your a grown ass man call her normally i would say dont but screw it your past the game stage this woman is to grown to be playng stupid games too.. call her and find out whats going on... and if she doesnt answer your call give her a day to respond thats long enough if she doesnt call her back and tell her you want to end it
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (22 July 2010):
My man, you are being misled by this woman.
She ALLOWED herself to be groped by this man, then went on to say she liked him a lot. And what did she say? She said 'you should feel she is going to end up with you'
Bull, pure and simple.
This woman is using you as a rebound. That's not good enough. End it.
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