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writes:well i met this girl and we talked for a bit, then we hung out a couple times, and after the second time we hung out she was txting me and she said "thx for hangin out with me :))" and i was like "thx for being awesome..and cute" and her reply was "=O you like me?" but i just teased her and didnt rly answer, but from then on that night she continued to tell me i had a priceless smile and really pretty eyes, so when she said goodnight i told her she was rly pretty, and she said that that made her feel good and that she would go to sleep thinking about that. so the next day i didnt txt her till late afternoon and she was with her friends so i let her go, so she txtd me a few hrs later just to chat but it took her forever to txt back and then after a cpl hrs and only a few msgs later she just randomly said she was going to bed goodnight, and so i said sleep tight, she replied with you too. then i said thx dollface. and then 5 min later i get on facebook and i noticed she posted a status that said "confusion". then in the morning i txtd her good morning and wished her a good day, she wished the same for me and that was all that was said that day. so i talked to my friend about it and she said that she either likes me and another guy, or she doesnt know if i like her or not. and then i have another buddy tell me that i tried a little too hard but not hard enough to chase her away cuz she seems prty interested. so idk i just wanted to see what some other ppl thought on this matter...
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2011): Well I finally txtd her at 5 and we've been talking since, but she's not rly being flirty or anything but she is replying and stuff, so idk just have to see where this goes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2011): I think she does like you but doesn't want to seem too keen. She might be confused about her feelings for you, and isn't sure if she should act on them. I think you should just ask her out. If she says no, you can still stay mates. And if she says yes, well, she says yes.
Hope this helps.
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reader, Advice_man +, writes (27 January 2011):
 Watch out pal!! From my experience all these "clues" you mention do not mean anything at all! I hope I am wrong because I wouldn't want to put ideas in your mind and take the chance to destroy a potentially great relationship. Surprise:Girls do these kind of tricks all the time.
Wouldn't you enjoy a girl to text you 5 times a day and tell you that you are a great, handsome man, even if you didn't have the least interest in her??? You would feel like God right? Imagine this girl playing this little fun game with 2-3 other men. This would give her a great self confidence and put her on the top of the world.
What I would do? Find out soon! Is she real or a manipulator? You played your little flirtation and she responded well which is good! Move on to the next step and do not waste any more of your time. Ask her out, go for a coffee or a drink. Persue some time alone with her. If she turns down your invitation out give her a few days and try again. If again she finds excuses tell her "Nice meeting you" and shut your door at once! Please come back and let us know what happened so we all can share our experiences and try to understand a woman's mind better! Best wishes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2011): I would just call her and ask her out on a date. Or ask her to "hang out" and grab dinner and be cheesy and show up with flowers or something so she knows.We are all a little insecure. There are ways to show you're interested without pushing it. Text messages ruin everything by the way. They are so hard to read. I have had 5 potentially dating scenarios not happen because they were courted via text. I actually just talked to another guy last Friday about why we never dated 2 years ago and I told him that his text messages were just "whatever" and I never got that he liked me though he flirted. He never asked me out because I stopped texting as frequently... Here we are 2 years later and going on a date finally.So just ask her out.
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