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writes:How important is it for guy's friends to like their girlfriends? If your friends do not like your gf, would you dump her just because your friends do not approve? I can understand if a guy dumps a girl because his friends don't like her due to her treating him badly, or something liek that, but what about when it comes down to really shallow things? Such as, the friends not lieking her because shes not out going and confident or because shes not 'cool' enough or because she doesnt fit in with their group of friends due to different interests? How many guys would really dump a girl for such reasons like that? And is it wrong or not? I have seen so many guys do this to me and other people I know, and it shocks me. Finally, why would a guy do this? Did their gf not mean anything to them at all? Was their gf just a 'toy' to show off to their friends, so if their friends do not approve they throw them away because they arent useful anymore? Reply to this Question
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reader, scrazy  +, writes (17 June 2008):
 That's actually pathetic.
If his friends don't like his girl, big deal. It's not like they're all dating her, just him. She's obviously "cool enough" for him or whatever, so just leave them be. He alone has to deal with her, not them.
The main reason why guys break up with their girlfriends over that reason is because their friends pressure them into dumping her and then they crack. It's actually childish, these boys are only breaking their friend's relationship up because they want him back and they don't like that he's been "stolen away".
It looks even more pathetic when you type it on a screen.
I hope this helps!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2008): It's not very nice.
I think that if a guy dumps his girlfriend because of his friends thinking she isn't "cool", then they probably were not that suited in the first place.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2008): hi there, it seems you already have the answer to your question. its a shallow quite dumb reason. no one knows your girl quite like you and if i think at hte end of the day your the one who will have to deal with her ups and downs so why not decide yourself. then again if its issues with parent not aprroving and the likes then its worth giving to a bit more scrutiny. nothing like a birds eye view of someone who you are eveidently blinded by love for.
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